Can you neg a HB about her love handles or would this be an insult? Guess it depends what you say I suppose. Maybe "I like your muffins"

Personally i wouldn't go for the love handles . A neg is a statement that while temporarily disqualifies is also off the cuff and fun . If you comment on something like love handles which i guarantee most girls are really self conscious about your just gonna make her feel embarassed and put her in a bad state of mind and what we're after is a positive fun state of mind .

NB: Usually go for a neg that is more superficial or that she's not really going to take to heart .

Just a helpful opinion for ya

love handles are an iffy subject... best to avoid

No don't do it! Never neg about a physical characteristic...except maybe her eyes (as long as they are normal) because eyes are always nice. If you neg her about her physical characteristics you will just bring her self-esteem down and you shouldn't aim at hurting the girl.

hahaha thats a deadly neg!

you should really say something like :

"I bet you would be fun in bed! I could just grab these suckers <lightly tap the right love handle> and just lift you up and down!"


. . . on second thought . . .

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That could be taken as an insult, do not go there.

Love Handles are just Sex Bumpers!

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I think practice is on the right track. Or just fuck it all and just tell her you like 'em. Most girls are a little self conscious about that though, so even that's kinda cutting it close. Best may be to just drop it and leave it alone.

p.s. whatever you do, don't refer to them as muffins/muffintops. Please. That would almost definitely be taken as a direct insult. Love handles sounds a lot nicer. Also, saying love handles implies a certain purpose (handling them whilst loving her - could give her some images, depending on her current state of mind). Just a thought.

yeah, I'm pretty sure this is mutually assured destruction.

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You can tease a girl about her fat deposits anywhere on her body, depending on one thing and only one thing.

Where you stand in the whole attraction/comfort zone.

If you are well into the comfort stage and she definitely is hot for you, then you can tease her about her pot belly or love handles or anything as long as you are playful and touch her and are somewhat sexy about it. You GOTTA be positive tho, you gotta tell her how much you love em and just wanna kiss em or whatever, while using lots of kino. This gives her positive affirmation about her body, probably in an area where she needs it, which is a good thing. But you gotta come off right and not mean, or its curtains.

If you try this too early, chances are really high that you will still hurt her feelings even if you do come off as real sweet about it. That or you will just piss her off.

Also, if you keep teasing her about it, you will quickly piss her off again, no matter how well it worked the first time.

if u sai i love your muffins she'd probably think ur talkking bout her tits, also dont ever call a grl fat, they will break down crying

a funny story bout DHV, freshmen year one of my best freinds had never kissed a grl, and we were partying with a chick that had never kissed a boy, me being a stupid ass f*ck, i go to this grl and say "my friend has never kissed a grl, and according to ur friends u've never kissed a boy, so u guys gotta hook up tonight"
now my friend was super scared of chicks/beauty so my friend left, (yea im a douche i've changed since) so i go to this grl "C'mon virgin mary, stop being a pussy" and she starts crying,(i think this is my favorite neg i've ever used) i dont even apalogize i just leave to go meet my friend, come back she's still crying,

i grab her hug her she cries on me, and she starts apologizing to me, so then i tell her that i too am sorry (idk why SHE apologized) and for the next 10 minutes she was ALL OVER ME, (this was b4 i discovered PUA) so basically she kino escalated on me and was giving huge IOIs, after 10 minutes i started hooking up with her / freshmen dry humping



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ya this is on the risky side. i would say use it only if ur dealing with a HB 9+

I work at a designer clothing store called metropark and i have actually negged women on their love handles a handful of times.

It is not a topic i bring up but as soon as the girl brings it up (usually outside the fitting room) ill usually neg her on them after she has initially complained about having them by saying something like aww but their cute with a big smile and a lil sarcasm (sometimes even grabbing them) the more comfortable she is with u the more it is going to work in your favor...if she brings it up and u AGREE with her...u can also say hey i didnt say it u did....Keep in mind i have build up some attraction and rapport from my female clients before doing this.

I do agree with a lot of peoples post saying its a touchy subject in some situations but it can be used in the right situations.

dude you just dug your own grave if you neg on something like that

A friend of mine once spent about five minutes trying to persuade me to call her fat 'cause I was insisting she had a good figure. Finally, she clutched a handful of belly in both hands and was able to come up with an inch of flab and was like, "What do you call that!?" So I replied, "Okay, whatever. You have a little bit of fat under there somewhere." And she freaked out and started whining to the other girls there that I'd called her fat.

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