Wow guys! im just starting but from what ive seen... this just blows my mind.. i just started and the stuff ive learnt is actually working.. like that.. kino duction or somthing..etc..me and my mate are trying.. im tryna turn pua but man this anxiety is a dead stop... i guess it seperates a man whos good with chicks and a man whos a pick up artist.. so i need some begining tips and advice from u guys to ease the anxiety..

cheers

Start with small talk or hi's here and there... For example when you walk into a store say hi to the greeting person. When you are in line somewhere... just start small talk with somebody around you.. you can easily open up with "This line is so long!".. I would give more examples but you get the picture.

like its said, pua is a lifestyle, when you wake up you should already know your going to pick up chicks, its a given, your ready when you wake up
trust me with that frame its super confidence and a good view, works for me
also ive got from one of chiefs videos , to think of it as rather of it as either going to be fun or interesting rather than pick up or rejection

one thing is people jump the gun and say man im going to get rejected, dont do that, and dont think, thinking is bad, its all about the gut feeling, when your uncomfortable thats good for you cuz ur putting yourself in a aplace your not used to
also make sure you know you control the situation and everything, you control the outcome

yeah cheers for the replys im starting to get over a little bit day by day when im out like just today i approched a 6 set and went on like an instant date with them.. well they let me join them for the day which was good but il keep trying thanks 4 the advice!

Alot of people asked me the same thing and I respond by saying "Someone I dont know cant hurt my feelings." So ask your self, "what is the worst thing that can happen from walking up and talking to these people?" If things go bad you will most likely never see them again. Also follow the 3 second rule. If you see someone you would like to meet within 3 seconds walk up to them. This doesnt let your brain keep you from walking over. Once you get into a set it gets much easier. you go into matrix mode. peace

You should always build up your confidence to a higher level.I Think that there are numerous ways to do that but you have to find out which one is the best 4 u.Many guys i know just get rid of the stress with listening to good songs,others just think that they don`t know the girl so even if rejection occurs they won`t lose something .after all everybody knows that practice makes better,and not only theory practice but real field practice.I Actually say to myself that i am the prize not her so she has to make the best so i can give her the opportunity to know me better and that is the actual prize.So even if she rejects you she loses and not you.You just get more and more experience as you try to pick her up and what to do and what not to do.You can also rid of approach anxiety by trying some of the staff on some of your friends of you that are girls ofc.Boost your confidence up and make the best out of you.XD

going alone can definately be scary but since you have a friend your anxiety should go down. me and my friends dance in the car... i no crazy right but we start laughing at each other cause we know it's stupid and at the height of the dance. i turn off my car and we walk into the mall (our usual sarging place) with big smiles and we look like we are fun.

secondly
who the FUCK cares what a stranger WHO DOES NOT KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT YOU think. you see them once and then there gone so dont let it phase you and by letting it affect you it will screw with your AA and turn you AFC quick!