long story. short. picked up an HB8. got her to meet up with me twice. at a coffee shop and a mall. im pretty sure i didnt mess up my game, but somehow over night, she stop texting and stop calling. so, i tried to meet up with her at another place but she says shes sick and should try again another day. i really liked this girl. she isnt giving me the same feelings i was getting from her when she was texting and calling me. my friends say i should drop her. But my best friend said i should chase her but do it in a cool way but dont try so hard. my best friend is actually very good with women. should i take his advice? how would i chase this girl in a way that doesnt make me look like im trying very hard. i havent talked to her in 3 days...

DON'T CHASE HER. That is the ultimate wussy behaviour, shes used to guys chasing her, remember take everything as a test women do. She might be sick though and thats why shes flaking out on you. But remember most women do flake, and shes probably testing to see if you do infact CHASE her, which you don't want to do. I've had women call me after 2 weeks of meeting them, they never called me back, i had that running through my head too, oh just questioning my game, but they'll be a switch that'll go off in a womens mind, like how you already asking her a couple times lets hang out etc. she'll be like ... "wheres that guy?, why hasnt he called me? it seemed like he was going to chase me?", and that'll create an obsession in her mind, which will make her think of you more and more, until she does call you. But remember, girls expect a guy to call them 2-3 times, and thats when you should give up, but don't let it bug you, move on, and she'll come crawling back before you even know it! .... hope this helped.

Hmmm.
I'm going to offer some counter advice tempered by my own experience here.

I'd agree don't chase her.
But I wouldn't wait for her to contact you.

I had a boy who wouldn't text me back and I deleted him from my contacts. If he's unwilling to put in some effort I'm certainly not going to either.

So I'd argue for balance here.

Tell me this though:
Who was the last person to make contact, you or her?
Has she flaked on you when you arranged to meet up?

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A PUA MUST ALWAYS BE THE EXCEPTION. Answer your own ?. Is chasing a girl what an AFC would do? It's the same as WWJD? Except its
what would PUA's DO? Meaning if the dating meta is that guys aren't chasing women then do it, but as long as they are not DON'T EVER do what AFC's do. EVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

This house is clear.

im not saying dont wait for her to contact you off the bat, i said call her 2-3 times than stop, cause if shes not willing to even talk to him, than shes missing out its her loss. she'll eventually dial you up while your chatting and getting busy with other gorgeous babes

hi cinnamon. well im the last person to contact her. to be honest though i tried to set something up for new years but she had plans. and i asked her last minute. (kinda my might fault i guess) than i tried for a third meeting and she said she was sick and "MAYBE tomorrow". i didnt contact her again after that. i thought it might look like i was trying hard.

i think im ready to drop her. =(

Think about it, would you want a girl like that to begin with?, flakes in that way?, obviously shes trying to play some hard to get here, maybe she doesn't know you too well, and she would rather spend her new years with people she knows like her friends before she does with you, you have to envoke in her a powerful attraction as far as her to always wanting to wanna be with you, There are about 4.65 billion women on earth... take out all the ugly ones...mental disabilities....fat ones...old ones... little girls.... you got still a billion man now go out and get BETTER and MORE attractive BABES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!