ok ill lay it out for yous.. Met this perfect girl about 2 weeks ago at a club called toucan in mandurah, it was after a concert. we talked for a bit, just about random shit, i thought she wasnt to keen and i was about to move on, but then she ran up and kissed me before she left...

now iv taken her out on a few dates since then and we have been to each others house, met family.. when we go out, we kiss all the time and talk about everything.
ive been single for a year now, just been hitting the clubs and just bouncing from girl to girl, im keen to settle a bit with this girl because shes really cool. she on the other hand just got out of a relationship and i have no idea what she wants to do..
iv talked to her about it, since we act more like a couple than some of my mates relationships but she keeps beating around the bush with her answers.

my question is, how do i close the deal? and does anyone else have a similar problem? i want to get this over and done with because shes occupying to much of my thinking time, lol,
women are so fucking hard to read.

Take things slow. It sounds like you're doing good, but she just got out of a relationship so she sounds like she's a bit confused. Don't bug her about your guys' status. Are you seeing other people though? Is she seeing others?

yeah i thought maybe it was me rushing a bit, i dont really bug her about it, just mentioned it when i thought was a good time to mention it. na were not seeing any other people, at least im not and im pretty sure she isnt. shes away for the week with her family SPAM, and im wondering whether i should call and see how shes going or give her some time to think things over. or just wait for her to call me? i dont know what she wants from me.

Send her a text in a few days just to drop in and say hi. Then, when she's back in town, give her another few days to get settled back in and then call her for plans.

i personaly would not worry about the title so much. if your relationship is going well then who cares and when shes ready to shell come around.

yeah sounds like a decent plan caligirl, she called me today which is a good sign, thanks. and your right ace, better to keep it like it is than ruin it, the title just gives me a bit more security. i just need to know that there's no one else, but i suppose i can just try trust her.