Me and a group of friends were hanging out one night, it was about eight people, and there was this new girl who I didn't know that was hanging out with us, and she was pretty cute and my buddy liked her so i thought, hey, I'm gonna snag that haha :] yes, the community gave me that confidence.
Anyway, first hour or two I didn't really pay much attention to her, when we were waiting for four people to finish eating i said to my buddy Dan and this girl Lacy, 'alright lets get out of here', and i grabbed the HB's hand and said 'lets go'.
We hung out the rest of the night, I pretty much made her do stuff for me (subconsciously) and when i had to leave i did what I learned from some video:
I gave her my phone and said "give me your number"
She took my phone and tried to hand me her phone, to which i said "Nah, ill just text you later on" (I have a feeling this is DHV, but I can't really explain it).
So when me and my buddy Dan left, about thirty minutes later I got a text from her number saying "I just got your number from Lacy instead :]" to which i replied "ok haha cool".
To jump out of story mode here, what I think is necessary to achieve through 'text game' is to pretty much DHV the entire time so she begs to be with you.
Things I do:
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Never reply to anything that doesn't contribute to the conversation (ex. 'haha' or 'haha yeah'). This shows that you aren't really chasing for a conversation, and shows you do not need another girl in your life.
- If you're ever going to complement, say shes
cute or
adorable, not
beautiful or
amazing or anything like that.
- Quick Negs:
Code:
'ah you're great youre just like a little/big sister!'. I get the funniest reactions from this one haha :]
'do you act like this with everyone?'
'are you always this flirtatious?'
'how do you dress yourself in the morning?' (if she says something dumb)
'man it sucks, i really just couldn't ever see us together' (credit: MM)
- GET HER TO QUALIFY HERSELF!
Code:
If you say you couldn't see yourself with her, and she says something along the lines of 'why?' or ':[' just say, 'well, why do you think we would be good together' or 'what makes you think youre the girl for me?' If she answers this honestly, [u]you have her hooked[/u].
Other lines to use:
- Eh, I don't think you could keep up with my lifestyle
- I'm not sure if you're [adjective] enough for me
- I think we talk too much... what do you think?
- As far as time goes with replying you have three options:
Code:
1. Text back asap
2. Mimic the amount of time she took to text
3. Take your time texting back (don't stop what you're doing to text back)
I see no problem with number one, I mean girls notice you text back pretty quickly but they aren't thinking, even subliminally "omg hes obviously needing me cause he texts back so quick". I mean a lot of people keep their phones in their pocket and just happen to be able to text back easily.
With number two, I do see a problem, although the intentions are good. I think a girl will also notice that you're mimicking her time for reply, I haven't had anyone text me back like "uh, why do you text back as fast as I do?" or anything, but i think its sort of plausible in their head that you're purposely doing what you're doing.
With number three, well this is the more 'natural game' type I guess. This way it kind of mixes it up so they know you can't just talk all the time, and they'll appreciate the time they get to talk to you
Overall, I'd choose 3, unless you're past comfort, then you want 1.
Sorry this is so short, its my first "tutorial" ill try to write on more topics, or get more in detail next time
--Manna
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