How do I know when to stop with the negs in a social situation like a party when the girl is kinda roaming from social circle to social circle and seems to always come back to my group?


More specifically:
A girl I barely knew came along with some friends and I to a party and I gave her a neg when presentable (She's asian so when she drank she would turn red)
"You would look attractive if you weren't so red,"

Plus another neg about a tattoo she had
"It would look amazing if the leaves were the right color,"

Did you follow up these negs by talking with her? If you just gave her negs and didnt say anything else she would probably take offence.

Also remember that you should be picking her up. Don't wait around for her to come back to your group. Go over to her group and win them over or seperate her from everyone else and talk to her.

You can't purely neg a girl and expect to win her over.

Conversation was good, tried to put in some kino with a palm reading trick I'm developing. As for the getting her isolated from the group I was wasn't sure how to do that so thats why I would go from neg to conversation then to kino then to neg again. It was a mess.

Negging might just be the most over-rated pua tool IMO. Negging should be used only with the HB9's, HB10's, or those girls that are super stuck up.

That being said teasing (like negging, just more playful and joking while being less serious) are great during parties and for girls thats are good looking, but not amazing looking. I really liked the line, "you would be so cute now, if you weren't so red." Thats exactly what i mean when I say teasing. The other neg about her tattoo wasn't as good in my opinion.

Negs are only used in the beginning of meeting the person. You do that to basically tell the other person, you are on their level and to essentially even the playing-field. Once you neg and get the girl on your level, in her mind, you are good to go. You don't have to keep negging through-out the night.

If you want to isolate at a party its simple, when you see her again. Just go up to her and you can up your arm around her (to build kino, if you feel comfortable) and say "come get get a drink with me" and walk toward the beer/keg, if she goes thats good. If not, I would take your arm off of her (if it was there) and just sort of playfully beg "come on I am afraid to go by myself." Just make sure you have some comfort level with her so it doesnt sound creeping. Isolate, Socialize a bit, Kino escalate, Kiss and/or number close.

-Smarts

Looking back on that night, and the new advice I just received I am pretty sure I can build and continue building some damn good game. Thanks for the help.