Why do women give shit tests? Is it really necessary? Probably so to weed out the right guys that have the proper S&R (Survival and Replication) value.

A woman wouldn't just be insultive and rude for no reason! I didn't know this until reading upon it and experiencing it myself. People in general are friendly and social people.

We have to communicate or if we don't we'll whether up and die! We'll feel lost and alone in this world if we don't communicate with another. This is why in every relationship (including Pick-Up) it takes great communication (social intelligence) to get what you want in life.

Long time ago, I didn't have so much the social intelligence I should have. I was stunted by external reasons that were beyond my control in the past. Writing my new book which talks about the challages and obstacles I had to face with my disability of having FAS (FETAL ALCOHOL SYDROME). FAS is caused by a mother drinking during her pregency.

Anyways, this book I'm currently writing has enabled me to understand more of myself as well as build my INNER GAME. I've finally understood that women aren't bitches they protray to be. They may be rude and obnoxious but it doesn't necessarily mean they're a bitch.

During my experimenting in the field I came up with a couple ways to by-pass a woman's "SHIT" TEST!

1) Ignore the comment said.
2) Stare at her for a moment then look away (IOD) then come back and reply with a NEW THREAD.
3) Show your being unaffected by her comment or rude question.

The main ingrediate is to be "UNAFFECTED" have the subtext you don't care and it doesn't matter what she thinks or says. This is a STRONG FRAME!

HER: Why in the hell are you wearing that shirt?
PUA: [Looks at her then shifts position away from target. Look back at her] I'm sorry what?
HER: Why in the hell are you wearing that shirt?
PUA: Why are you wearing that shirt?

--or--

HER: You look shitty in that outfit!
PUA: Wait! What? [Lean towards her to listen closely]
HER: I said-you look shitty in that outfit!
PUA: Oh, thanks! You look really good too! The shoes don't match though,but your outfit looks good!

The first one is a good one, well I think. I don't know about you guys but it counteracts the SHIT TEST. The second one is being kind to her no matter what. She's testing to see your response (whether or not you'll get pissed or whatever). If you show her you're unaffected and compliment her but then NEG her. It'll be a nice present of shit for her to eat!

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I don't know, man. I think that's failing the test.

that is an immature thing to do its just repeating her comment back at her bws

"why the hell are you wearing that shirt"
"Just so I can tell who is immature enough to comment about it"

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haha im gonna repeat that to myself 10 times so i remember it, thats an awesome shit block

lol srsly? would of been better in 1 month bring it up 1 yr later.

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Yeah that's a failed shit test right thar. They do these things to test your frame. They wanna see if you're insecure or defensive, and if you are, you're gone. Your response was a little too on the immature side though, and that's another surefire way to fail. As far as I'm concerned, shit tests are just another form of IOI. She wouldn't be testing you if she wasn't into you, right? So if a girl says shit about something I'm wearing I just smile and go like, "you fucking love it". Nice and simple.

i agree with solomon i think shit testing is a form of an IOI so respond with something smart and funny that doesnt show that ur defensive and insecure and keep the convo going.

well...... thankx, i learnt sumthin now

The main reason a girl gives a "shit" test is because she wants to determine if you are the money guy you appear to be.

That is why I prefer to call them congruence tests. You came in strong, are doing all the right things, but she wants to make sure you are who you appear to be, and not some guy that is going to sleep with her and then become her stalker or something.

The only thing that matters when passing a shit test is that your state doesn't drop because of it.

So the easiest way to pass a shit/congruence test is to just ignore it...

HB: You're shirt is ugly.
ME: I'm sorry, I don't speak spanish... Anyways, blah blah blah

HB: You're shirt is ugly.
ME: Cool, anyways blah blah blah

No recognition...

There are obviously "better" answers, that can spin the conversation sexual, or more cocky responses... but watch out!

You don't want to come off as reacting too much to the statement.

HB: Nice shirt... Not!
ME: Woah! What kind of immature person comes to a club and starts ripping on peoples clothes!

Yeah, it's a comeback, but more than likely she'll be thinking:

"Haha gotcha! I thought this guy seemed cool, but he takes whatever I say really seriously. He must be putting my pussy on a pedestal and really want to be with me. He's probably not accustomed to being with a girl like me, so he's probably lame..."

The coolest part about congruence tests though, is that when you pass them you INCREASE attraction dramatically.

I know a lot of natural guys who FORCE congruence tests to get the girl totally attracted.

Like they'll go in and say ridiculous stuff, and the girls will be like "WTF" but the fact that they stay in there and it doesn't affect them shows what type of guys they are...

They know who they are, congruent to their core... A very attractive quality

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lovedrop has great shit test responses.

my favorite is to act like you didn't hear her, or misunderstood her for complimenting you

bottom line is this:

shit tests are testing to see if you are either confident or insecure.

just give a response that shows you are confident

I tend to wear clothes that are rather, 'out there' so to speak, and have a lot of guys who come up to me to take the piss and make the most predictable jokes like:

"that's a bit gay isn't it?" or they do the wolf whistle or something.

Though I always manage to turn the situation around in my favor because these guys have such small IQ's and consequently are very easy to outwit.

How would this be for a response if a girl made a shit test comment about an item of clothing I was wearing:

HB: Why are you wearing that stupid jacket?
Me: What don't you like guys with individuality?
OR
Me: What don't you like guys with a personality?

Either or? Bit of a neg thrown in there.

Thoughts? I'm pretty new to this.