I was watching this fantastic new show on MTV where these teenagers struggle with staying celibate. Well this HB8 decided that she has to stop cheating on boys if she's ever going to get married and have a serious relationship.

So they have her meet up with her ex-bf, and they film her at work (she's a shot girl at a bar) and show all her temptations day to day.

She continually speaks her mind and all she talks about is reason and justifications she should be sleeping with her current boyfriend and other guys.

This made me think about the soooooooo many guys I meet that don't realize THIS IS HOW GIRLS THINK.

Not only do girls WANT to have sex, but they find reasons and justifications TO HAVE SEX.

So next time your on a date with a girl, I want everyone to remember that this girl you're with is ++waiting for a reason to have sex with you++. This mentality can be very powerful when you're with a girl.

and tell me how it works for you ;);)

Dolf

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thats good u figured this out before hand...

Lance mason of pu101 teachs this...he says that you have to give a the girl a reason to fuck you...with that i mean you have to put the blame of sex on u so she doesn't look like a slut whens shes telling her frens...

Example:

"He lets go back to my place i got the new Timbaland cd and it fuck coll...u wanna check it out?"

u can use anything...a dog, a cool computer game, a fish tank, you play the guitar and u wanna show here...jes make sure u over hype that shit to it can pull her emotionally..

I love you're insight into this subject. Not only are you positive, but you have a cool way of putting your thoughts.

I know I'm new to this forum, but I think its going to be a blast here.

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I totally agree with you Dolf. Men have to realize that women want sex just as much as men do, and some even more.

But I also find that women have to justify what they do, especially when it comes to sex. No women wants to come off as a slut. There is a thought process going on in there. Where as a man can take one look at a women and know right away he would sleep with her.

Once the justification is there, women will go to great lengths to get what they want.

And if men can recognize the signs once the justification has been made, don't give in too easily, build some anticipation and escalate the sexual tension. Then you will really see what I mean by "they will go to great lengths to get what they want"

I'll tell you a story

I went to a party, and I was just being myself, confident, funny, just joking around with a bunch of friends i hadn't seen in a while. I wasn't running game on any of the females there apart from flirting because it's a second language to me, but i wasn't trying to meet anyone. Now all night i noticed that where ever i went this girl would follow, she was dating someone who was also at the party, so obviously i wasn't gonna try anything (yes i have morals). So i went home at the end of the night without thinking anything of it.

A couple of days later she added me to her msn, which i didn't give her. I added her and we chated that week and there was some obviouse flirting going on on her part. She later told me that she was intrested in me and wanted to hangout.But I kept telling her, that she had a boyfriend so i wouldn't hang out with her, and as long as she had a boyfriend it would remain that way. (i.e not giving in too easy)

She then started justifying why she shouldn't be with her boyfriend anymore, cause she wanted to hangout with me. And sure enough she broke up with him.

The day she broke up with him she sent me an msn message saying "it's over...i broke up with him", we talked for a bit then out of nowhere she asked me to come over for a hot tub.As much as I wanted to I couldn't give in or at least appear to give in, I replied I will come by but the hot tub would be trouble.

I went over and had a few classes of wine, i could read her body language like a book, she was also wearing a zip up sweater and as the night progressed the zipper just kept getting lower and lower. We started talking about sex and i was teasing her saying she was trying to get me drunk to seduce me cause I told her that we couldn't have sex. (still not giving in). After that was said she tried to seduce me with a message and once her hands went below the belt I pulled her hands away and said lets go back to the kitchen for more wine, she followed as I lend her to the kitchen, then as soon as we got there i turned around put my arms around her, and kissed her, it was on...i then led her to her bedroom..and you can guess the rest...I gave in

She later told me that she wanted to from the minute i got there but was unsure because of the fact she just ended a relationship, and by me not giving in and building the anticipation and sexual tension it made her want it more and make her justifications to sleep with me more valid.

nice!

That's pretty obvious already, but thanks for pointing it out to anyone that didn't know already.

Pretty sure this exact thing was covered in The Game in one of the summary pages.

That's pretty obvious already, but thanks for pointing it out to anyone that didn't know already.

Pretty sure this exact thing was covered in The Game in one of the summary pages.