Okay so I was out with a buddy last night and we met these two HB8s at the bar. It was pretty convenient that they were sitting by us and we watched a couple sets of AFCs try and fail miserably. We never even asked them their names or anything until we had them laughing and having fun.

Anyways, we eventually each chose a target and proceeded as normal. There were a lot of drinks flowing and at one point my target just completely changed her attitude and closed up. I dont know if this was due to something I said or if she was just drunk and maybe a little crazy or something.

Regardless, Im sure that I could have done something different and saved the situation. The one thing that did surprise me is that right before she got crazy her friend took a pic of both of us and she put her head on my shoulder. I got her number right after that and called her so she could have mine. It seems that almost immediately after that she just got weird and walked off with another girlfriend. She was obviously drunk at this time just like me but we had such a good time up until that with lots of kino back and forth.

Anyways, so now I have her number and Im willing to give it another chance and just see if it goes okay. How and when should I contact her? How can I recover from last night?

well if she was really drunk, she may not remember that night, however if you know she has your pic, this is a good thing.

I'd say give it a day or so, calling her right away is kind of try hard.

When you do call her, remember to use your push-pull principles and set up a time for more conversation, remember you don't have a lot of time to stay on the phone because you are so busy.

You might try a few of these tactics:

You noticed her number in the phone and it triggered a memory of your last conversation so you'd like to continue this in a more social location. Remember not to say "can we go out" but "how could we continue where we left off".

that should give her the opportunity to suggest a location and you can be sure it will be something she will like which makes your job a whole lot easier to get into that comfort zone.

What about some txt game to move things forward?

I don't really like the whole texting thing, I find it convenient at loud gatherings but other than that I don't do it much.

I'm 33 so I guess I just am not into it that much.

I think texting kind of puts you in the friends box, it also is an indicator of lesser value as you have the time to text. I think a quick call to set up a live meet is always the best way to go. Always use false time constraints when doing phone calls. ( btw this is advice I've used way before doing anything in the PUA community, it's how I've always done things and it has been very effective )

no texting

i hate texting ... i recomend calling her & "busting her balls'' Cocky comedy...and then telling her to meet up with you and continued the conversation in person (not like a date thing) just meeting up and having fun...or asking her to give u company

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Thanks for the recommendations guys! Although I have had success with txt'ing in similar situations, I will try the phone call. My only opposition to phone calls is that she can ignore my call. In this situation is it best to leave a voice mail or what?

If she ignores your call, leave a quick voicemail, who you are, that you wanted to continue where you left off last night and that she already has your number.
Nothing too long, just quick, clean and concise.

If you suck at voicemail like I do, right down what you want to say beforehand, I find it helps me a lot.

So how many days do I wait to call her? If I take the advice from Swingers I should wait six days but I think maybe midweek is okay?

Mid-week ought to be good, the main thing is not calling too soon but not waiting too long. Mid week ought to do well, it's far enough away and she most likely won't have anything planned yet for the weekend.

id call her about a day or 2 later, i wouldnt wait to long though. just call her and like hey its so and so from the bar and talk to her alittle bit and try and get something set up. if she doesnt go for it or pretends like she doesnt know you then move on. she sounds like a weirdo to do something like randomly turn around and walk away.