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A Sticking Point or SP is an issue you CONSISTENTLY run into.

It is NOT a point where you get stuck with ONE SPECIFIC GIRL.

A Sticking Point is:
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I keep getting LMR whenever I bring girls back to my place. This has happened at least 10 times already! What am I doing wrong?
A Sticking Point is NOT:
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I got LMR with this one girl! What do I do?
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PostPosted: Sat Jan 03, 2009 7:51 am 
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As the title says, i'm having tons of trouble with attraction. I have zero trouble approaching, and im great at building comfort, but i have very little success with getting attraction built up. What should i do?


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PostPosted: Sat Jan 03, 2009 5:57 pm 
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do you do light kino?


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PostPosted: Sat Jan 03, 2009 6:04 pm 
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for quality advice you need to be more specific. explain the problem in greater detail and I'll help ay way i can but..

off the bat. I would say one of the following is happening.
1. youre heading down the nice guy/best friend road
2. your being to friendly, maybe the clown.
3. DLV. but listening and agreeing on everything.
4. fetching and carrying... buy drinks, making way for friends to sit down.
5. not expecting anything from her. SPAM and not asking for anything in return.

lemme know


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PostPosted: Sun Jan 04, 2009 8:41 am 
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Let me give you the general lowdown of what i usually do.

I'll approach a set with an opinion opener, directed at the group as a whole. Then i'll do some fluff talk to the group, at which point i'll hone in more on the actual target. Then i'll do the cube or some other like routine on my actual target AND the obstacle, and run it like a best friends test by tying both of their answers in together to help disarm the obstacle. After that i'll do another, similiar, routine called strawberry fields, but is totally sexual in nature, being light hearted and joking, yet serious, about it. At that point, i can usually get a # close, or at least do a little bit more DHV, and fluff talk, then get the # close. But it seems to never lead to anything more than ending up in an LJBF zone. I know i'm missing sexual tension in there, and i do some light kino for sure throughout the whole deal, but maybe i'm not kino'ing enough, or escelating it up enough? Am i missing a piece to the puzzle here?


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PostPosted: Sun Jan 04, 2009 9:10 am 
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yeh take it to the next level, i see your doing your thing seems you build comfort and do kino and dhv

you gota get her to qualify herself to you. "what makes you so special from all these other girls?"
and you need to isolate, simpler terms, its too crowded here or its too loud, our lets step outside
move location, get her alone , you can do some talk here and look for ioi's to kiss


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PostPosted: Mon Jan 05, 2009 5:13 am 
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Thanks a ton for the advice Nerd, i think you may be right. Actually, i kind of felt that was my problem, but it seems to really sink in better when someone else actually says it. Appreciate it. :D


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PostPosted: Sun Jan 11, 2009 6:50 pm 
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yeh man but remember keep it in order attract comfort seduce, as long as you play out all the steps in attraction


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Exactly why i don't use routine based game. It is a thin sheer of game you are layering yourself with. Its not REAL game. If you want to deeply attract women the right way, you need to work on your inner game and self beliefs. And then work on nonverbal stuff. What you say has little to nothing to do with getting the girl/ its who you are as a man. its all about you. nothing to do with the woman. I used to be into routines, but it just didn't feel like the Real me. Maby its not your style


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