I met someone in june, f-closed after two days, and she got ahold of my email address. It's not important how, she has it now.

She's sending me a 5-paragraph email more than once a week, and I feel obligated to reply to each one. I think she's trying to turn a one-night stand into a relationship, which I have no interest in doing (with her). It was a fling, we met while we were both on vacation, and now that we are both in our respective homes any relationship would be a long-distance thing.

Can anyone suggest a polite/classy way to make it clear that I have no desire to be pen pals? Maybe it's too late to be classy with this one, but how, in the future, can I make sure that a HB doesn't try to turn a night together into a full-blown relationship?

I'm a firm believer in mystery's "leave her better than you found her" concept, so simply telling her to back the fuck off is not an option.

Thanks in advance.

"back the fuck off .... please?"

Just kidding. Just tell her simply how you feel about it and be straightforward. There's no simple way to do it.

S. O. I.

Make your intentions clear from the beginning. I don't know how many times I've been forced to re-post this very simple concept...

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Yep. SOIs!!

And make sure your SOIs don't change after the f-close. If it was a ONS don't let her imagine afterwards that this has changed because of the fuck!