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shameless, good job.
your game was natural, I think that's what everyone can pick up on here. He didn't use any canned material, and he had set himself up for a win by having a good time before the party. You walked in there and dominated the scene with good DHV, the casual kino approach (girls at the stripper pole), and the kiss neg thing was brilliant man. Same with the AMOGing handshake bf assumption. This is just theory being filtered through natural charm, no canned routines. I think we can all appreciate the fact that this is the end game: all natural.
props
it was not all natural. It was mostly natural DHVing through social proof (remember when you are the Alpha male and are naturally DHV'd you can go to rapport when you talk to the girls and make them DHV back so as not to become overvalued).
But there was some canned material. The "are you an impulsive person" is canned also the 5 questions game is a well known game although i suppose a game is a game and not really canned.
Mostly natural and I don't think using a line like "are you impulsive" is bad or doing other routines or anything. Do not be afraid of using material, maybe make your own up so you are yourself and not other people but use it if you need too. Fake it until you make it.
Key to this story as i see it is SOCIAL PROOF. It IS magic.
also, if you have this much social proof you may want to check out the puppydog routines i've read that Tyler Durden made up. google em' they are good. I was at a new years eve party last night and I had overvalued myself and gave off the vibe of the guy that WILL get some... which in this type of party where i was aquaintences and the cool older guy that the other guys did not want there, I needed to DLV a little. (its a false DLV and shows a more human side) I wish I read it sooner.
Find the puppydog routines just to understand the theory of it in case then you can wing it, its an easy concept to grasp no real need to can it.