Hello.I don't know how to start but i will try to explain you.2 weeks ago i had a date with a girl.On this date 2 girls come to us and said me "hello,you invite us to a drink".The date was ok,even if i broke up with this girl.The problem is i think i made too much approaches and i have a kind of fear to be seen as a freak who approach girls.i don't live in a small city but i do most of my approaches in center of a town where are the same girl circles.Since then i always think at that problem.i need an advice please.

Hi man, am i right in thinking that you were on a date and a different girl came up to you and said "you asked me for a drink" Well if this is true, firstly that sounds very rare to me, I have been in situations like that before and girls do not normally care if you are with another girl, and certainly don't think you are a "freak" Also I would say if you are using mystery method then the idea is to just be a friendly guy to everyone and then it almost comes naturally that you would go for a drink. If she seemed offended then I just think you asked her out too quickly, she needed to feel more comfortable with you before you asked her out (or better still she asks you out) Don't let this one situation stop you from approaching women, trust me that is all in your head that girls think you are a "freak"

hope this helps mate

What i say is very real.i know what happenned to me is very rare and that's why i think it gaves me that anxiety.I'm not using mystery method,i use direct method.i will continue to pick up girls, but since that date i have a strange feeling that chicks knows that i approach girls every day. .Like Shark said in Attract and Date it's only in my mind i think.thank you for your reply.Please more advices because i still can't get over that .

well all I can say dude is I'm sure they don't and you should try not to care anyway. Girls don't mind being approached if you do it in the right way! Remeber to smile when approachin even if you don't feel like it
hope this helps

It's all in your head. That probably made you look more desireable because it's what is known as pre-selection from other women.

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