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Have you told friends/fam you are PUA
Yes and it was hell  9%  [ 3 ]
Yes, No worries  47%  [ 16 ]
No, I'm too scared  44%  [ 15 ]
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PostPosted: Wed Dec 31, 2008 1:30 am 
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I never tell anyone about what I do until it comes up.

I didn't tell my family until I started travelling all over the place and they were like "How the hell are you affording to travel around to so many places?"

Now they think I am like Hitch or something.

Same thing with my friends, it wasn't until they saw me with different girls all the time and taking girls out of clubs... Then they started asking what I was doing. In time I told them more and more.

But you'll realize that people will only appreciate and accept this stuff when they are ready to. You can't persuade or force anyone to understand or embrace it.

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My family think I'm gay!
(they are in a different country - I'd love to let them know I'm a PUA but you can't tell people that kind of thing by postcard).

My friends know, and exploit it by getting me to open sets for them at clubs because they are too pussy to do it. I never directly told my friends, they figured it out because they saw what I was doing in clubs

My work know because I mentioned it at the job interview for the question "tell me about a time when you had to really change your way of doing things to achieve a better result". The two interviewers were older men and they looked pretty impressed

My female housemate knows and encourages it

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But you'll realize that people will only appreciate and accept this stuff when they are ready to. You can't persuade or force anyone to understand or embrace it.
you are 100% right!
i have a friend who is an uber AFC. i felt sorry for the guy because he was always complimenting me on the HBs i was with. so i told him about PU and sent him to do some research because the stuff helped me get HBs. the next day he came to me and said something along the lines of "thats some bullshit haha it's a waste of time". and now he's still an uber AFC.

i told some female friends too and they say that PU is effective.


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Its irrelevant. I'm a musician thus I've already been disowned.


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PostPosted: Fri Jan 02, 2009 5:20 am 
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I haven't told anyone, because I'm not really a PUA. I play guitar a little, but I'm not a musician. I like to draw, but I'm not an artist. To me saying I'm a PUA means I'm good at it, but I'm still really just learning.

Have I told everyone that I'm learning about meeting and attracting women? Well that would be a yes.

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Haven't told anybody yet. I'm only new to the art so I will have to test it myself before sharing tips with my friends!


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WHy would you hide it?
The only reason i can see is if you were ashamed of it, think its wrong that your doing it or are still dependant on what other people think of you.

To me, if you feel any of those things you are not in the right mindset.

Feel free to correct me if there are other reasons you wouldnt tell people?
(by telling people i mean if they ask or it comes up in conversation, not annoucing it)

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PostPosted: Fri Jan 02, 2009 11:19 am 
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My mom and dad and brother know...

They are all really cool about it, they've seen how PU has changed me and i'm more confident and in general more happy with myself, so there all for it :D.

My brother ,whos 19, is a natural with girls, it helps me though i learn alot from him and his methods.

i have not told my friends though i was the quiet one of the group they would probably laugh at me and call me a dork. screw those guys haha

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no1 needs to kno anything, im just a social outgoing guy


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