It seems like to much work, Im not cocky in real life..Is there any other way to attract chicks? I can be a bad ass if that helps? Im just not into the whole cocky funny thing , I dont think it suits my personality..People think im a bad ass when they see me , When i start acting funny it detracts from my bassness lol , What if i act like im all that without the cocky funny?? Like if im quiet but unpredictable and mysterious .. shouldnt that work just as good?

I think as long as you dont act like a wussy insecure bitch you should be ok..Just act like a mans man ..Am i right?

For me it seems like if im cocky funny all the time im trying to bloody hard..I understand i can make a few cocky comments , But surely i cant be 'ON' 247 how stupid would that be..And confusing

You don't have to be cocky funny. I am not. I am generally not a funny person. I am good-humored and confident, though. Which are almost required for sarging.

Cocky funny is difficult to pull off for someone who doesn't have that personality type. DO NOT be that quiet mysterious guy because despite what movies say, girls do not generally go for that... unless you are a really good looking dude.

I say just be confident and good-humored. Be ready to poke-fun and laugh. Do not be sullen or quiet. Girls want guys to go after them, not to seem interesting by standing in a corner.

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Yeah i understand that, You cant just stand in a corner and expect girls to walk up to you..Even for good looking guys that really isnt the way to go in my opinion..I will be confident but i dont like being too funny ..Only funny when i think of something good..

But the thing is , I dont know what to say when i first meet a chick..i havent got that far in the program yet..

If you are worried about opening girls, there are plenty of ideas on this forum. Try looking at the openers section and find some good ones. From there look at the routines section. These will all help. Make yourself a cheat sheet for when you are out in the field.

For the most part, I think you should look at the confidence building section. If confidence is where you are lacking when it comes to talking to girls, you are far from alone. Don't worry about things so much. There is plenty of advice on this forum that will help your confidence and give you material to talk to girls. Read the field reports and look at what the people with high post counts have to say, they usually know what they are talking about.

Btw, welcome to the community. Once you get into it, you will love every second and talking to girls will become second nature.

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Thanks man

Nobody is forcing you to act/change in anyway. Just do what suits yourself best and go from there.

If CF doesn't work for you, no big deal. It's not the only way to pick up women man. Be interesting. Have the girl wanting to hear the next thing you say. Apollo's tips are good. That's basically what this forum is about, sharing info and such. There's a stack of it on here, just look around and you're bound to find some good material.

Btw on a side note, instead of posting again after yourself, try editing the last post you had and adding whatever it is you want to say. Just makes it easier to read, and no offense, but it's a little post whorish (someone who posts just to clock up number of post count)

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Post whoreish? Im new to forums dude relax..I didnt know you could edit posts that have already been posted..

Don't worry man, I'm not having a go at you, just a suggestion. If I didn't tell you, you'd never know would you. Just some constructive criticism.

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