One of my targets likes to 'put the blame on me'.

What I mean is the following, I'll give an example:
She drops something and goes: <my name>, why did you drop that?
Or she walks away from a room and says: Clean up this room!
Ofcourse, I'm not the one giving in and I mostly just walk out myself and say something amongst the lines of: You can clean it up yourself, your the one who dirtied it .

Also, I'd like to try to escalate some kino on her, what are really easy starters? Tapping her on the knee when she says something silly? I've tried some basic kino but she doesn't respond too well

Thanks in advance

doesnt really matter how you respond... i like going for c&f responses in general though so...

her: why did you drop that?
you: because i'm just THAT clumsy

her: clean up the room
you: sure. *lie down on bed/couch/floor* i'm done.

easy, basic kino would be like taking her hand and leading her somewhere, placing your hand on the small of her back and directing her, hugging her when she says something silly/stupid ("ahh come here. i heard retards like hugs" or something like that maybe) try thumb wresting too.
i take girls to the driving range and then help them with their swing =)