Normally seen as one of the biggest IODs a chick can give, this girl gives me so many IoIs in real life and always starts conversations up and wants to keep them going. I've escalated kino and I know she doesn't think of me as just a friend.

So what's wrong with her? help me out.

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your texts are the problem I think..

are you asking questions like "hey, what you up to?" or "how are you?" which in a way is pushing her into texting back which is of course a form of manipulation. also the fact that you are expecting a reply, I mean, she doesn't HAVE TO text you back.

In my texts I NEVER put question marks, never any punctuation, always write texts in which she can have the choice to text back and read it as a question or statement. I learnt this from my ex's best friend.

heres one I made earlier:-

"im off out nw we guna hav a chat lata"

This could or could not be a question,
"I'm off out now, we gonna have a chat later?"
"I'm off out now. we're gonna have a chat later."

kinda hard to explain but she can choose to read it as a question or not so if she don't reply then its ok either way

Thats funny. We were talking I always open my texts with "How's my (insert neg here) doing?" And I always get a reply.

The conversation died so I go "What're you up to now?" and she doesnt reply.

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Tyler Durden: F off with your sofa units and strine green stripe patterns, I say never be complete, I say stop being perfect, I say let... lets evolve, let the chips fall where they may.

ok well maybe she reads this as insecurity? or like you have nothing better to do then find out where she is or what she's doing. any kind of small talk. any indication that you are trying to keep the conversation going shows neediness, DLV,

this has happened to me as well... its the worst. i agree with gyarados (Pokemon fiend ). one has to write in such a manner as to be interested but also busy.
Remember, your the prize, your the person they want to be with... just dont be too arrogant, trust me.

Listen guys. i'm no MPUA but i have been in this situation a couple times. But this is how i take it. when a chick doesn't text back , its cause she is thinking what to say, or she doesn't know what to say.

So?
When u ask her "what are you up to now?"
she will either reply "oh just blah blah blah"
or
"Nothing"

So if she is actually doing nothing and responds "Nothing" she will seem like a boring bitch.

So by not texting u back, she can act like shes busy but, in actuality we all know shes not.

So what do i do? I would just play the waiting game and not text her until she texts me. If she doesn't? .... NEXT.

i had this problem the other day...so i txted her

"wow your so talkative to day i cant even get a word in"

it ended up she was at work and her BF was near

it worked for me mayby it will work for you

hey gyarados i was wonderin if you could give some more examples of opener-texts you might use

its funny but it still shows needyness

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