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Tall_Guy
 Post subject: Need a little advice
PostPosted: Thu Jan 01, 2009 9:59 am 
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Okay so this week I have gamed this girl twice creating comfort and negging etc etc. I never closed because last week she was dragged away by her friends and I ended up with her best friend sitting on my lap. Tonight I ran into her and she was literally dragged away by her friends because they wanted to leave, she told me she didn't want to but her friends literally grabbed her and left.

So my question to you is.........

Is it okay to get her number off a friend and text her or not?

If so what should I open with?
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Chad99
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It's always better to get the number yourself.
How long would it be before you see her again?

If it is going to be more than you can handle, then get the number off your friend.
Or perhaps if you know she likes you, you could ask your friend to send her a msg saying does she mind if they give her number to you. That way there wouldn't be any awkward tensions or answers as to how you got her number.

Or if you know her well enough, just send her a fb msg.

Lots of options, but always best to get the number from the source.
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Tall_Guy
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We are not in the same social circle and the only reason I seen her twice is because its a popular time to go to the local club around xmas. I doubt I would see her for a long time. I appriciate your reply man, cheers mate.
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get the number wats the worst thing that could happen
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get her number anyway you like....

then send this text message.

"when there is no chance of your friends interrupting us, give me a call as I have stuff that needs to be said."

when she calls just chat with her.

good luck fella
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"when there is no chance of your friends interrupting us, give me a call as I have stuff that needs to be said."
DO NOT SAY THAT ^
You'll DLV to hell.

Imho, develop rapport with the friends. You will you be able to meet her more often in a comfortable environment and it won't look like you're hitting on her because of your interactions with everyone. The next time they all try to leave, whoever you befriended will be willing to defend your position instead of going along with mob bitch psychology.

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if you can do this..
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develop rapport with the friends.
its the best good advice.
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I have had good raport I befriended a few on the first night but these ones weren't there the other night and they weren't with her they just popped up out of nowhere and took her. I appriciate the advice but I am beginning to think its one-itis, I had one-itis alot before I got into the. I don't want to fall back into my AFC mind frame so I think I shall sarge on and if I see her again great but there are plenty more ladies too meet.
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Sound lke you gave yourself the best advice to me! If you bump into any of her friends again just build great rapport with them and maybe you will end up going out with them and bumping into her again, until then, plenty more fish :)
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Yes plenty more chicks out there!

Although I don't see a problem with contacting her, especially if you know she is interested.
Like why let one get away if your sure she likes you. Like I said before whoever you were planning to get the number off, see if they can get the ok from her to hand over the number.
If she says no, then you won't even have to waste your time on her next time you run into her...
And if she says yes, then you got a little in.
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Tall_Guy
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I felt that if I did get her number through a friend it would look to her that I like her and I thought PUA was about indirect approach thats why I am stuck. I feel if I do it I am going back on what I have learnt and its my own fault because I should of got the number close in the first place.
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PUA is about being able to go and meet and pick up girls.

Just because you don't number close doesn't mean you can't pick her up. Like some of the other posts said, get the number anyway you can.
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You make a good point Chad, if I get the number and I never see her again fair enough. If this happens I can still practice phone/text game on her and the more experience the better.
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