Hey guys, Im in high school and I was thinking if the 4-10 hours thing from meet to sex applies.
I mean i've known a lot of these girls for a few years now. I was thinking I would still have to spend some time in comfort cuz i've mostly just flirted with most of them.

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4 - 10 rule generally applies from meeting a girl and sarging from the off. If you've known them before hand then yes, you'll need to put in extra hours to get out of the friend zone, but once they're thinking of you as a potential partner it would still be about 10 accumulative hours. Just make sure that when you're getting over lmr you say 'we shouldn't be doing this - we're friends' rather than 'we shouldn't be doing this - we just met'.

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dude, you're in high school.

when mystery made up that rule, he was basing it on his experience with girls he met late at night in LA clubs.

not the same thing.

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Totally agree with Sean here.

I've had AT LEAST 10 instances in the last year where I met the girl AFTER the bars closed, and had her at my hotel within 20 minutes. Full close.

Don't believe the hype of so called "fools mate" game.

Although I do think most of Mystery's content is great.

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just to be clear, if it take longer than 10 hours, that's totally cool too.

most girls i've been with it took way longer than that. i mean, fuck, i like the fooling around part and the anticipation. why would i want to "get it over with?"




keep flirting. you'll be surprised how often that's all it takes (cos NO DUDES DO IT).

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"War is not the answer. Love is."

True... I have been in travel mode lately, so I haven't had the luxury of longer "courting" methods, I am usually going for the same night lays.

When I was chilling in the same city for a while though, I had a few girls on rotation, and most took longer than 10 hours to sex.

My basic rule is, as long as you escalate further with the girl each time you meet her, it's all good.

This is good for two reasons:

1. If things go too slow or backwards, you might want to think about if she is toying with you, or you are unknowingly in the friends zone.

2. It means you can't give any excuses about not escalating, you still have to take the next step, don't let her initiate for you... Put your balls on the line and LEAD...

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"War is not the answer. Love is."

In high school it is totally normal for it to take weeks or months to engage in full sexual intercourse with someone if you're going out and not just hooking up at a party. At a house party with some drugs or alcohol involved then you're looking at closer to club type circumstances (possibly past that depending on the people and the party), so you can reduce those numbers to a few hours or even less in some instances.

Like Sean and Brad pointed out though, don't rush it just because you think that you are supposed to. The real fun is in the flirting and everything leading up to the first time. After that first time it's never quite the same and in some ways not as exciting again. Don't think that because Mystery came up with a 4-10 hour "rule" that you need to follow it, it was merely an observation he made, nothing more.

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Sean

What do you mean with flirting and especially that no dudes do it? Just asking...

i mean communicating in a way that is direct and charming and intended to make her feel fun, beautiful, sexy and excited.

i so rarely see flirting, and not just in times when people meet. i don't even see many couples who flirt, and that's just sad.

if there's one thing that i figured out these past few years that i wish i had known all my life, it's this: if you like a girl, and want to keep her around and be happy about it, flirt with her EVERY day.

seduce her EVERY day. no days off, no holidays, no breaks.

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