I've been sleeping with this girl since the summer (it's been pretty good so far). But she still hasn't gone down on me. I've done it to her & we've talked about it in the past and seems like she's not shy about it, but she hasn't reciprocated it. We've both made it clear we have feelings for each other (although she prob. has a bit more), so how can I bring it up without asking straight up or shoving my wiener in her mouth? I've been thinking about directing her to do so while she's really turned on or positioning a 69, but are there any other ideas that have worked? Thnx.

Ask her straight up.

Communication in a relationship is essential. If you've talked about it and she's okay with it then you just need to ask her. There's nothing wrong with communication in a healthy relationship.

Why don't you want to ask her "Hey babe, you know what'd be great, if you went down on me for a bit."?

Cinnamon

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I agree I would just ask or bring it up....she will getthe hint and if she says eww or somthing then say "Well you never hear me say any thing when Im doing it to you" lol

Theirs a chris rock skit that relates totally to this subject. he talks about how ALL girls are freaks and will do anything you want them to do but you have to ask as if you expect it and its no big deal... like chris says you cant be all like "ahhhh excuse me, if you wouldnt mind, if you got a free moment.. would you ummm suck my dick" cause she's going to be like suck your own damn dick! even if she wants to...

Personally Ive never "asked" for oral sex in my life. you have to tell her. Dont demand it, just tell her. talk dirty to her a little during forplay, when shes giving it a rub, playing with it just look her straight in the eyes, touch her body a little, esculate kino and start talking dirty "you like that, does it feel good in your hand" kiss her and look her right in the eye n say "do you want to kiss it". She wont say no to that because youve made it seem natural. Most girls have insecurities about sex. Especially early in the relationship, you need to get her to do all the freaky shit early. They have this subconscious mind thats saying "did his last girlfriend do this? does every other girl do this in the bedroom? I had better do it, I dont want him thinking Im fridget"

chics who dont go down is a pet hate of mine. i will not be stayin in any relationship with any girl who doesnt relish the oppurtubnity to do that to me. if you are really into someone, you should want to be totally immersed in them.. not disgusted by them.. which is what i feel if they dont get some lip service cranking.

Haha, I remember this. Makes sense though. I agree in that if a girl is really turned on and is with a person she feels comfortable with, the freak will come out on it's own.