Theres this girl, we've flirted but she always had a man and i was always wrapped up in other stuff. So she breaks up with him and causaul starts messaging me. She'll intiate and say we need to hang out. I'll agree and set a loose date. She will build it up, and then just bail. The cycle continues over and over. Would should i do? Im thinkin just say fuck it and let her go? what ya'll think?

Freezeout!

Do not call her for some time. Do your own stuff, if she really wants to meet you tell her where and when, she can tag along on stuff you were gonna do anyway but if she bails then its her problem, you are just gonna do your stuff anyway.
Do not show that she annoys you, she will understand that anyway!

I agree just dont talk to her for a while....she will come to you. Go out with out her, have a good time and dont worry about her.

Pretty sure that "hating women" is the wrong attitude to have here..

This.

Also, hating women is not cool.

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Obviously i dont hate women it was just a joke.lol

We got that it was a joke just don't have that kind of mindset. At first I thought that being playfully sexist was the same thing as being cock funny. Kept crashing and burning... gee I wonder why.

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Love, KATA124

Dont hate women...you came from one. hate the fact that ur mom taught you the world is kind, all is good, and to let women walk all over you.

you have a value issue with this girl. she doesnt see you with much value, and you shouldn't have let that happen.

heres how you solve it.

go forward with both barrels, man....

call her up and tell her, you are buying a gift for a female (friend or date, it dont matter) and you want her opinion as she is roughly the same as the "friend" (throw a neg if you like, shes just as short as you, shes got the same size hips as you... blah blah.)

give her a time and date to be there, and if shes a good girl who helps you very very much, you will treat her to a little bit of lunch (and talk to her just like that.... you might even use "good little girl").

when you are shopping with her, hate almost everything she shows you, and be sure of it. sometimes, tell her, well done, thats actually nice.... etc. etc.

buy something, and then say, shit, I have to get a move on and go someone where else. I owe you a lunch, and I will call you and we will set that up.

1st date and 2nd date covered.

alternative strategy, blow this girl off and go chase any of the other 100,000,000,000 cute girl. getting a single-girl-lockon is no good for anyone. But a chase with a tease can be fun...

good luck big-boy.