Okay a little history with this one..

I met this girl a while back and we met up a couple of times. The first night we went out I was totally cock blocked by her roommate that showed up. Actually at one point I got some IOI's from her roommate and did some kino escalation with her.

Later in the night I had the first girl with her arm around me and rubbing a little on neck. I did the same to her but the night soon ended and I didnt move in for a k-close or anything.

She came to meet up with me the next night and we all hung out. We had a big group conversation but I didnt make any advances to her at all. We spoke a couple more times via friendly txt before she left for the holidays.

So I get a txt from her yesterday saying 'how goes it mr? i feel like ive been gone a really long time'. I waited awhile and responded back 'yeah its been awhile. you must miss me bad by now'. Later she sent back 'i cry myself to sleep'.

I left it at that and didnt txt her again yesterday figuring that I had her interest and should just freeze out a bit. Especially b/c when she was here I felt like she was still on fence about whether to put me in LJBF zone or not.

She will be gone for nye but her roommate is here. I txt'd her roommate yesterday and she wants to hang out late night when she gets out of work.

My question has a couple parts...should I txt her back or wait for her to get home and get in touch with me? At the same time, should I move to get together with her roommate and how should I play that if ultimately I want to get together with the one out of town?

I would like to help you out but its a difficult thread to understand?

Break it down a bit.

Sorry, too much coffee this morning when I wrote the post. I guess I was rambling

Anyways, theres a girl I want to hook up with. I have been out with her a few times but never made moves other than some kino.

She has been out of town awhile and sends a txt yesterday

Her: "how goes it mr? i feel like ive been gone a really long time"

Me: "yeah its been awhile. you must miss me bad by now'

Her: "i cry myself to sleep"


How should I respond to this? I dont want to be put in the LJBF zone. She is out of town with some guy that she was giving it a shot with. However, she didnt seem to optimistic about it before she left and the fact that she is contacting me before she even comes back tells me she is trying to set up things for her return.

Yeah theres nothing to worry about there! Shes showing some interest. Your keeping it cool and teasing her. Shes just teasing you back

Keep it going! Try not to be to serious about it. Your thinking about it too much.

Have fun.. Dont show too much interest.

(HB) i cry myself to sleep

(YOU) you cry urself to sleep? I count sheep

Something like that!

Have Fun RC.