Hey guys, i've been seein this girl for about 4 months now and we are both pretty into each other!! I've invited her to a mates house party on new year and we have booked a hotel for the night!!..........the deal is i feel like absolute shit because i have not been well over xmas, the thing is i really want to see her but dont want to pass on my germs!! I was thinkin of sending her a text that went something like this

Hey you, looking forward to seeing you tomo, unfortunately i have not been to well recently, so just wanted to let you know that i will understand if you didnt want to come down!! You never now though seeing you might just make me feel better!! Just wanted to warn you!!i would still love it if you came though

Is this a good idea to let her know because if she comes out, she will catch what i've got (pretty bad cold)lol, but it just seems selfish to not inform her before hand!! What do you guys reckon!!"

I wouldn't tell her anything. When you meet her just say you woke up this morning feeling like shit. It's not lying.

If she's into you it wont even matter. I've pushed girls away from me telling them that they will catch my cold, but they can never resist I think it actually acts as a kind of push pull attraction.

(Lean in to kiss HB)
Me: You shouldn't kiss me because i'm sick
(Pull away)
HB: I don't care if I catch your cold
(Lean in to kiss HB)
Me: This is a really bad cold
(Pull away)
HB: I don't care
(End up kissing, undress, ect...)

You'll be fine. Your thinking too much. Telling her not to come to see you would be a total let down for her. Just go with the original plans.