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PostPosted: Mon Dec 29, 2008 4:11 am 
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I want to get to know women and people. However I do not have any friends. If I just walk into a club by myself how am I going to pickup women without any friends?

I do have a australian accent and I do live in new zealand so i suppose I could act as a tourist.
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Hey man I used to live in NZ I'm living in Aus SPAM! The best way to meet people initially is through day game.. but if you want to do night venues try going to pubs for 20 min a night, if you catch a set, then be friendly! go to big groups with guys. What you’ll notice is if your just nice and cool to everyone, i don’t mean accommodating and a wuss bag i mean polite and you are you, your not doing anything special, is that the lead man from the group will come and do some guy bonding with you, tell him about what your into so on, and he will let you into his group of friends! don’t try to out flash him or anything, from then if he has a single girl in the group she will automatically feel attracted to you because the guy has approved of you so she will hit on you, note that and go with the flow! Once you’ve made some friends take the coolest friends from that social group and go out meet more people eventually enough for you to combine them into one group! do a house party invite people over, play tarot cards, don’t get all girls invite a guy or two, gay guys are awesome to keep people entertained and in a high mood! and just develop your life like that!

Offcourse all of the above is not what i do because ive chosen a different path but it sounds to me like you want cool friends a good circle and things to do and women to go out with... that’s a great way to go about it, and there was a time when i used to do that, early in my game. Australian accent is a bonus for sure!

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One of the most important tenets that I teach is:

It's only a big deal if you make it one.


Many people are successful going out alone. One of my most glorious lay reports was me out solo, and at the end of the night the girl said "I think it's really cool that you went out by yourself tonight."

Realize that it isn't a big deal, and if someone calls you out, be like:

"Yeah, I'm out by my self." UNAPOLOGETIC. Like it is totally outside your reality that anyone would think it is weird to go out by yourself.


As for how to keep your state up and stay in a good mood... You have to start talking to people RIGHT AWAY. Build social momentum so you don't just hang out by yourself in a corner all night.

Talk to the bouncers, the bartenders, guys, couples, girls... Anyone so you aren't by yourself and getting inside your head...

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i would have to say make male friends or just go out there to make friendss,
u gotta develope a sense of social intelligence and chicks can sense this a mile away...
If your not socially intelligent, ur automatically turning off all HOt chicks you meet. Just go out there thinking of meeting friends and hang out with them every week or so,, Then after month or two making friends, go out with them again at a club/party then u`ll have a good social vibe flowing out of you buddy
Good luck =)

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hey bro where in nz are u from. havent been to nz in 3 years. i have studied in an aussie school for like two years and im coming bak to auckland in march.
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hello my fellow NZers, you guys out much? I'm in town every weekend :) hit me up

and there no need to worry about having no friends, when I first went out I'd always be going to town alone too

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You can do something in your free time. Visit dancing classes or something like that. There you can find many girls and guys who are really nice and you can befriend them. Also you will learn something new and interesting. After that you can hang out with them at clubs and meet more people.
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