it was about 2 weeks ago I saw this girl get out of her car, gorgeous blonde driving a bmw, with the sexiest legs ever. She was a friend of a friend. She seemed busy, so I sent a text to her friend a few days later "who was the cute blonde in the bmw"

she happened to be with her at the time, and wrote back "that's so and so and she says her car will do circles around me"

I'm a bmw nut, I have an m3 myself, and that drove me nuts. Cocky and funny.

A week later her and her friend come into my work, and the bmw girl screams my name across the restaurant. We went out to lunch, and I got her number.

We planned a trip to go up to the mountians with my friend and her 3 friends. I called her 4 days later to see if that was still on, she said yes.

I was at the mall and my friend was getting lingerie for his girlfriend. I sent her a text message "I found the perfect corset for you"

She said "buy it for me"

I said something like "woah woah woah I just met you and now youre trying to sduce me"

She wrote back "meet me at this place right now"

i met her and her friend there with my friend, we went out to pizza, came back to my house drank a little, I was on my laptop, she grabbed my neck and tried to kiss me. I pushed her away, she tried 2 more times that night I rejected her both times. She asked if I thought she was ugly, and I pinned her up aganist the wall and started making out. She had half a drink, so I knew she wasn't drunk.

Kissing led to intimate foreplay and then had sex with her.

We slept together naked until morning and she put my boxers on. And then we drove the girls back to her car.

One of her friend's physically picked her up at some point in the night and dropped her. So I sent her a text 3 hours after dropping her off asking how she was feeling. She wrote me back.

Then 2 hours after that I didn't respond she wrote "dont text me I'm out of text messages and I don't think we're going up to the mountians. we'll call you tomorrow. later"

Then I find out she has a bf. That's abusive, and she wants to break up with him. She didn't call me the next day, so I call her the day after that. No answer. I don't leave a message.

Next day I call, and leave a message "hey just want to see what's up, maybe we could meet up for coffee, call me back"

It's been 24 hours.

Now I know her best friend likes me also, but my rooommate likes her and I can't do anything about that. But I called her to see what was up with bmw girl.

"do you have time to talk"
her "sure what's up"
"what's up with bmw girl"
her "she has a bf"
"what does that mean, was it a one time thing"
her "ya that's what I've been trying to tell you, i gotta go, bye"

And I know she's not that type of girl to have a one night stand, it was the second time she's ever had sex. She's only 18.

I dunno what to do...

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Sounds like she's with her bf a lot and he's gonna beat her up if he catches her texting you. NO girl is ever OUT of texts. Forget her and one day I guarantee her friend will tell you that they broke up and you can go from there probably.

What the fuck did you keep calling her for? You showed desperation. damn... memories oh, and leave her alone, she's a bad case

Sounds like a simple case of buyer's remorse to me. Nexxxxxt.

Judging by her speed, I'd say you're the 100th she's hit. She's very, very into one night stands and cheating on her boyfriend. You didn't game her, she gamed you.

Who knows what the other guy has to offer and perhaps you could work on this well enough and make her your girlfriend . . . but then you'd be the one she'd cheat on every week. She'd also have to tell everybody that YOU'RE the abusive boyfriend in order to justify her ons habit. Not that great. You had your fun.

Yeh they go funny when they get back with their bf's or their ex's if they were with them for a long period of time.

I've been seeing this girl kinda and we hadn't spoken for a year and a half, she calls me, wants to catch up. I say sure, thinking it was nothing just a friendly catch up. Anyways one thing led to another. She's then msging me, saying she wants to see me and what did I do to her?
So she comes over the next time and gives me a bj. Then I don't hear from her for a week. I was able to be a bit more demanding towards her that we speak cause I've know her for like 6yrs but anyways she went awol for a couple weeks and turns out she was talking to the ex.

So anytime there is old baggage, it's probably not worth it unless she is really into, in which case she'll make that clear and throw the rubbish out.

In your case, I don't know how old you are but if your more than like 24-25 dating an 18yr old will more than likely be a headache.

You treated her like shit, and that got you laid. Read this again.
If a girl did that to you, would you like her? You might fuck her just to prove that you could, but then you'd ditch her forever and call her a bitch behind her back.

She's calling you an asshole behind your back, cos that's what you acted like. Stop playing games and act like a man. You made her feel ugly so you could fuck her?

Classy.

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You worked her pattern and got laid. She's in an abusive relationship and you were borderline abusive too. The question now is are you going to be a stand-up guy, or are you going to be just another link in the chain of men who hurt her?

I'm gonna go out on a limb and disagree with Sean, only because if she's really in an abusive relationship she may still see you as nicer than her boyfriend. In comparison she may not see you as an asshole. The problem is she may not see you as a better alternative to her boyfriend either. Whatever she thinks, give her a few weeks to miss you. 24 hours isn't enough time for her to come to any real conclusions, and your constant efforts to contact her will soon come off as needy.

You may have to accept the fact she's probably going to stay with her bf just because you didn't show her anything different.

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hmm u really need to switch up the game it can always been done. One of my rules is not to send another text message if she aint replied to your last one! stick with that!!!. try call her if she dont pick up DONT RING HER AGAIN leave a voicemail if you have to. then the last option is that you have to "accidently bump into her" and say something along the lines of, you need a new phone. dont ask her why she aint replied. make her tell you why she aint replied.

You negged her too much. Damn this guys killing us (fuckin Mystery)

So what do you do when you come across a game player, you know, like a chick that wants to be chased and may make you call a couple times before she picks up or waits a few days before replying....

Saying this cause I have a senario in which I KC a hot Canadian girl the other night with good vibes from her all night. I msged her and she replied with a pretty plain msg. So I thought I'd be cool and didn't reply cause it didn't appear there was a lot of effort put in.
I called the next day to arrange a date, no answer, so I left a breif voice mail (probably shouldn't have), plan was to not try again for at least a day, but I got invitied to a private party which would have been good to take her to, so I caved and called to invite her, but no answer, so I smsed the invite but no response.... really wierd considering the vibes I was getting.

Now I'm in limbo cause I can't contact her for a while and I don't know why she hasn't gotten back to me...

SO yeh, what is one supposed to do when they meet a girl who they REALLY like and she is holding out?

E.g. what is my next move... nothing? Just wait?

This is a whole new topic you should post this as a new topic not as a response to another one

Yeh I agree, scenarios are somewhat different. But I'm new here so I can't post a new topic till I get to 50 posts.

Do you think you could post it please Odookie.

Cheers mate

Don't worry your only on 18... I'll just have to wait.

difinitely called too much. My damn roommate talked me into being an afc for a few days. Telling me "if you really like her, you should call her til she answers"

I forgot that the only reason he gets girls is because of his looks.

So I hadn't called her in a week now, and she comes over today right after I left for work. She didn't call me ahead of time or anything, and she came over with the girl that my roommate likes.

Do I call her, do I say fuck it, do I wait it out?

The only reason I'm making a big deal about this is for 2 reasons. I have been dating this one girl for 2 months now, we talk everyday, hang out 5 days a week. After I slept with this girl I told the girl I was dating, everything that happened.

And now when we have sex that's the only thing I can think about, I can't even cum any more. I feel so guilty.

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