i sent a friend request to this chick on facebook and she messaged me back saying "hey do i know you" i replyed back "hey hun nah i saw you on (the persons name) wall" she didnt reply back but shes real cute should i neg one of her pics or just reply with hey??

I reakon facebook would be hard to use to pick up. Unless of course you know the person and they know you well enough.

I looked up this checkout chick on facebook but I've only spoken to her a coupe times. I reakon if i sent her a friend request that would be weird, so I am going to go about it in person.

ive never really sarged online, it kinda creeps me out when my friend once told me that hes going with a girl he met online

but i think if it was me, id choose the mutual friend's thing on facebook then you can talk about your mutual friend, and your mutual friend will vouch for you that you are cool then just sarge away as normal

but the good thing is that you know exactly what to say cus you have time to research a good answer or post on a forum what to say, but abd thing is when it comes to finally meeting her on the date , everything has been said thus bad date then bye bye and your not as charming as you are online

id say stick to person to person stuff

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I wouldn't.
You've made a big boo-boo, you've added her via a mutual friend, that's a big DLV, it shows yu can't get friends on your own.
Trust me, I had a boy try this on me, it won't work.
Leave with your dignity.

Cinnamon

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I think facebook is a good tool, but for meeting girls I think it is a bit stalkerish...

One of my best friends from college has this HB girlfriend, who she isn't that good a friends with. I asked her to msg her for me, so she did and made it clear I thought she was attractive, I msged her she replied so I added her then we msged a few times more and after about the 3rd msg I asked her if she wanted to meet up, she said nah I'm busy, then she came back and I msged her again and she just deleted me... lol

Bottom line is, facebook seems to be a weird way to meet new girls.
I did hear a good one though, as facebook used to have the poke buttom open for everyone to push, you just go poke random hot girls and if they poke you back, go from there. But that feature no longer exists unless your already friends...

Hey Cinnamon,

can I ask you a Q please.

I meet this girl on Christmas eve. She showed a clear interest as did I towards her. She bought me a drink. We kissed. We exchanged numbers.
I msged her on christmas day and put a bit of effort into the msg. She replied very casually, so I didn't respond and left it (as sorta punishment for not putting in effort, but I may have been wrong as it just may have been her style). Next day I tried to call her at around 4, no answer, I left a quick voice mail. I then tried to call her tonight at about 7pm to come to a party, no answer, so I msged her instead of leaving voice mail to ask her to come if she wants.... no reply....

Am I worrying about nothing or is that a brush? As she could be away for the weekend or sick or lost her phone... or not interested. Which I find odd...

I've been asking for advice and I find that when I do that, shit always f's up.... So I deviated from my game plan as I wasn't going to call her tonight cause it was late and she probably already had plans, and I was going to try her again on sun. But cause I got invited to this party I thought it would be good to go to and I wanted speak with her...
So now how long do I need to wait before I try again and how should I?
Txt or call, or call private number?

I REALLY like this girl for some reason, there was just an instant attraction. I don't usually get this excited about girls I just meet.

Chad-sounds like youve contacted her too many time's in a short space of time and maybe come across as needy and posessive

just my 2 cents, see what cinnamon says to your initial question
goodluck

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yeah facebook definitely is a great tool to DLV yourself... if you're really into this girl and it was on a friends wall you should just ask that friend to meet her and you in a big social gathering... then when you're out there just spit some pua game and act like you have no idea who she is haha.... thats your best bet

Wow dude, don't ever do that again.
Adding a person you barely know is crossing the stalker zone, but adding someone you don't know and saw through a friend's wall? That's definetly stalking. Ask yourself: Why would someone add you with no previous interaction at all? Based on looks, to get in your pants. I have a lot of gal friends that tell me about how people who add them randomly are creepy and that is because they barely know them. You convey way too much interest and come off as a stalker. DLV right there.

What you want to do is have your friend throw a party or a get-together with a bunch of his friends and isolate the girl you're interested in and get to know her/run game. Meeting someone through facebook only gets you so far. Then it tends to just lead to flakes.

Yeh I totally agree...

Adding the friend was more of an experiment to see what would happen. And its not like I randomly added her, my friend spoke to her and said to her I was a good guy and did she want to speak. Her response to my friend was "I always love meeting new people", so I added her then we msged and she was friendly adding xx at the end then I asked her if she wanted to meet up for a drink or a coffe, she went weirdo... so eh... whatever....

I'm concerned about the other one, who yeh I feel like I shouldn't have deviated from the game plan and called 2 days in a row.... not cool. I agree.... so now thing is I felt some good vibes coming from her and we kissed and we traded numbers. SO I'm just so confused how all that is worthless... I mean maybe she has amnesia... lol

Just tough to understand, plus I gave her over 24hrs to call me back after my first phone call.
Just need to know how to contact her so I can arrange to meet up again...

i once had this great connection with the 1st approach of the night

i pretty much kiss closed streight away, she was just laughing uncontrollably at not funny things so i knew i was in

we kissed ,all night , i did some amazing dance on her and evrything, she just thought i was such a cool guy

i text her the next day she flaked

i think just sometime's certain women whether it might be like her relative is in hosptial so she shudnt be having sex with guys and stuff, she was just having a bit of fun for the night , who knows

but sometimes no matter how much of a good connection you have they can just flake you straight out cold

best way to overcome this is to get as many connections/close's as possible then the statistics are in your favor t5hat at least a few wont flake

hope this helps Phil

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Yeh thanks Phil.

Helps a bit... but why would they give you their number and their correct number at that... like I mean if they know they're just having fun, why not be like nah sorry just out for a bit of fun or give a fake number.

I'm still hoping she calls. I'll give her till tue, and see if she what shes doin for new years. Or I'm thinking wait till next year before trying to call her again... I dunno just bs how they are keen as and then flake it

Makes no sense?
Thanks again

Oh yeh for those who read the facebook experiment story.

Funniest thing, I went to a club in the city tonight and I started chatting to a 2set and lo and behold one of the girls I was talking to was the girl my friend introduced me to via the fb medium... what a spin out.

So as soon as she said her name I knew it was her. Then I had to tell her my name and she knew who I was. It was kinda funny... I just laughed at her and told her I must have said something that scared her. I.e. asking her out for coffee... lol

She was very apologetic and said she did a clean out of all the people she didn't know and was promising to add me (now that we've met) and we could meet up for a drink or coffee... so either way, it was a funny night.

Peace out,
Chad

i guess they feel they'd they should give out their number , and its so easy to ignore a phone call/text, if she turned a number close i wudnt of gone for the kiss close which she obviously wanted from me, and when evr i get a girl's number i say i only trade numbers so i call there phone there and then just incase its fake

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