Soo i am 18 years old, live in KS, and i have never had a girl friend. Or a first kiss for that matter. Whenever I have the chance to say hi or talk to a cute girl i do, but somehow i never know if they are attracted to me. I am almost always smiling and having a good time everywhere i go. I have heard that all the girls in school think i am funny, positive, energetic, and very nice. I always put others before myself basically. It has been said that if you are always nice, you are put into the friendzone. So I guess that is where I am. There have been times that I have met girls from other schools and i have gotten their numbers but i don't know what to do after that. This would be my second problem. Because i have never been on a date, I have no clue what to do on the date or if i happen to get close to her. I just get nervous cause i have never been close a girl physically. So what are some signs that could help me figure out if a girl likes me and how can i be more knowledgeable about getting closer to a girl and out of the Friend zone ? Thanks!

hey.
how about being sexual, and making yourself happy as well. you need to learn to escalate.
well... typically, you call them. i would spark the attraction again, have fun, and set up a date. i also like getting emails because when you email back and forth a few times you feel like friends. and they respond to emails more often than they take phone calls. you can also take time to say what you want to say.
there are lots of things... most notably talk.
well, gauge how comfortable she is. if you're just standing, and talking near each other chest her shoulder and see how tense she is. if she's not tense, you can start moving in closer, or put your arm around her. if she's tense, she's a little uncomfortable - so you should kind of back off.

well... if you guys are at a casual restaurant, or at a movie you should get her to sit on your lap - or at least beside you.

when people are on a packed bus they tend not to move, go all stiff, and feel awkward. they do this because they have personal space problems, and going stiff says, "hey, i don't want to touch you - but I have to". but if you are relaxed and comfortable letting it happen, then they will start to feel it too.
well... i read their body language, energy level, and small hints they drop, and spoken words i guess... depending on the tone

body language. well... usually i just assume no matter what they're like there's got to be a reason for it. if they look uneasy i just think theyre shy and have a crush on me. if they look at ease then i know its time to escalate. they also drop subtle hints that they like you instead of big ones... yuo cant really just label all their actions because they can have more than one meaning. hands in pockets doesnt always mean nervous, it can also mean your hands are cold... or you need to get out your phone.

energy level. this is basically vibe, i guess. i usually go in with their energy level or slightly higher, synch up with it, and take it where i want.

small hints they drop. well, this is a number of things... i cant list them all because its impossible.

spoken word/tonality. theres a difference between a girl saying, "i hate you" and screaming it in anger, and a girl saying it in a playful way.

i usually use Intuitive Eyes. which is just a naturals way of putting two and two together. you can just see the look on their face and judge what it's like. you can just see their body language, and feel their energy. you can work on this by talking to people, and getting social experience...

people who dont use Intuitive Eyes, and instead infer from their actions are usually correct like... i dont know 60% more of the time. i forgot the stats.

this ones hard for me to explain -.-'
there are tons of books and cd's out there. im writing one, but i'm nowhere near finished. learn everything you can, test it out, and see what works for you.

getting out of the friend zone is pretty easy for me. i just make it sexually, fun, and playful. i have gotten out of the friendzone about... i dont know 3 times. only one i still kind of go for, but it made things a lot more interesting. we still call each other babe and sweetie, and talk really sexual.

ive also gotten out of the enemy zone a couple of times. right now a girl is my worst enemy (she's a real bitch, with a massive temper) but she still has a big crush on me.

thanks man. i guess the thing i need to work on mostly is touch more. Kino, cause i think thats what i can sometimes get uncomfortable about.