Anyways I was dancing with this HB 9 and siezed a oportunity to kiss close her when her friend was making out with sum random guy and I knw they came to have fun, I danced a bit, gamed her for a while than after 10-15 min I conifdently asked how good of a kisser she is, kinoed a lot and than I traingular gazed but she was not looking straight at me which I took as IOD, but I still saw many IOI before so I persisted and used the mysterys kiss close and asked do u want to kiss me? she said if u play ur cards right, I had no clue on what to rebuttle, something simlar has happened to me in the past, so I was wondering if u guys knw what do or respond to a situation like that

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-Giacomo Casanova

Consider the difference between these responses:

"No way, don't get the wrong ideas"

and

"If you play your cards right"

The second one means, so far she likes you, she's attracted, then your job is now not to mess things up

Just keep gaming her away...

Response to that line

"If you play your cards right"

you say "Meaning I have played them right so far"

she may say "maybe..." or smile or something

and just take it from there

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I would use one of 2 responses which I think are both from Style. It's been forever since I read that damn book.

Option 1.

HB9 "If you play your cards right"

Me "I'll take that as a maybe", *leans in for kiss*

or Option 2.

HB9 "if you play your cards right"

me " whoa I never said I wanted to kiss you, are you always this agressivve?"

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Romeo I like this response a lot, its very smooth and ill probably use it 9/10 times, but I think with HB9-10s u need to throw in a subtle neg, they could just think ur intresting to talk to or ur a good dance partner, and they don't want u to leave so they will throw in a line like, "if u play ur cards right", to keep u thinking u have a chance therby staying longer, maybe firing a neg and a little time constraint would make her see u as a challenge

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I am bound to add that the excess in too little has ever proved in me more dangerous than the excess in too much; the last may cause indigestion, but the first causes death.
-Giacomo Casanova

what do u guys think would be a appropriate neg? Nothing to harsh

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I am bound to add that the excess in too little has ever proved in me more dangerous than the excess in too much; the last may cause indigestion, but the first causes death.
-Giacomo Casanova

Negs are usually situationally based (as far as I understand) it seems like you are a bit beyond negging. She is obviously feeling some attraction because of her response. I liked the move in and kiss that Prospect talked about.
I have only had this happen once (not the "cards right" line, but last minute resistance on the dance floor) and I just moved my hand up her back while looking directly into her eyes... she kissed me.
Sounds like a bit of a shit test to me.

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