| Life was split by Mystery, three sections were made.
Health, Social and work. If one was lacking, all would fall through. If one gained, there would be an improvement in them all. Social and PU was then split, Outer game and inner game.
I personally think the way mystery made life into 3 parts and how he explained how all were needed was one of the best ideas he presented in his book. It changed the way I looked at my life and how I organised my time. How PU was split was fine, everything worked well and balance was maintained. Then along came social circle game. In my opinion it doesn’t really fit in inner or outer game. So this needs to be expanded. Suddenly PU is split into 3 sections, each needing the other to be truly successful in any. In this post I intend to highlight the downfalls of only focusing on one or ignoring any. Finishing on how they all fit together to form the best PUA.
The outer game junkie: They have learnt all the lines, they can attract, impress, DHV etc etc. They get a few closes and then it happens. They run out of lines. Suddenly it all goes to pieces and they stumble. This may be at the day2, or day 4-5. Then what happens, the girl loses all interest.
The inner game junkie: When inner game is taken to the extreme by an AFC, they tend to just keep looking into inner game. Getting better inner game. Keep finding all these things they don’t have right with their inner game and because of this keep waiting. They don’t get out and do it! Because after all, their inner game isn’t ready yet. They don’t feel that confidence so it won’t go well.
The social circle junkie: Friends with everyone, knows all the greatest people goes to all the best places. They are in their amazing friends shadows. The girls always go for the amazing guys they are with and they end up LJBF.
That is the extreme example, but I hope it makes problems of only focusing on one clear.
So what happens when you miss one out?!
No attention to outer game: You don’t talk to people; you have nothing to fall back on (unless you’re a flawless natural you’re going to struggle if the conversation naturally dies down). Everyone has their own lines, even natural game people have lines, its just things they have made themselves. Every natural I know has a few lines themselves, be it for when they are about to k-close or whatever.
No inner game: Well, to be honest if you have no inner game you probably don’t have either of the other two. With little inner game you need huge amounts of external validation, PU is just a way of attention seeking to validate yourself and a case of fake it till you make it will stick. Lots of short interactions that result in you never being happy.
No social circle: No friends would suck. Everyone has bad days and wants to have a beer with a few mates who cheer them up. Some people just to do things with, not to mention help with PU.
So I hope you can all see why it’s important to build everything up together. I might go into how to bring it all together in more detail at a later date.
Madals
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