Likely, there's a way to overcome fear and anxiety but is there a way to overcome jealousy. Sometimes i find i get really jealous if i see a girl i like with another guy, i really hate the word jealous but i dont realize sometimes that i really do get jealous. I won't ever forgive myself for being in that category or being that way.

I don't even know where im going with this topic, post whatever you want.

Thanks

-Fatal

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Mate we all get jealous from time to time. Most of the time when we see females we like talking to other guys, we fear the worse, half the time they are just chatting. Best way I've over come jealousy is to just talk to as many women as I can, it's good because it proves that no woman is so much better than any other that we should get jealous. it's probably a very AFC thing to do but its slowly building up my confidence. See how it go's for you

Hope it helps mate

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Yo what if you dont talk to much women? Thats a very good point but i can't put it to good use. Would there be any other alternatives to try to overcome jealousy, and jealousy always leads into depression, fear, anxiety, for me. It also makes me worry. How about you? or anybody that reads this.

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Hey, don't be jealous man, do whatever you can to stop it... it can really ruin a mans life. I know where your coming from. I was SOOO jealous from my ex when i was with her, before i "found myself", and even though alot of women wanted me(and still do) lol, i was still extremely jealous, even accused her of cheating on me, it got to a point where it affected me ALOT. in every aspect of my life...

and i realized, you can't live that way, It Lowers your value to points of extremes, STOP IT WHILE YOU ARE EARLY ON. Look on the net for ways to control it before it controls you. Its really not neccessary, it should not exist in your life brother, if it does, it should only be a TINY bit, which every man has. Not enough to affect you in any way.

My life is different now, this was about 3 years ago. Im completely the opposite now. CONTROL THIS

I suggest some inner confidence, listen to paul mckenna- supreme self confidence every day for about 2 months. If nothing else changes your life, this WILL.

ps: I appear to be new to the forum, but i've actually had a very high number, i switched names because of problems on my old adress. etc so dont think im a newb lol

Improve yourself. Become successful in other facets of your life. Become the guy everybody else envies. Date a bunch of girls. You might find yourself a great long term girlfriend . . . you might go through several. Either way, just start living your life to its fullest. This is important . . .

If you do this for a while, suddenly . . . everything will make sense. It's like the movie Matrix where Neo begins to see the code that makes our visual World. You'll walk into a room and you'll know, "Shit, I can grab any girl in here." . . . and people who don't understand this at all will tell you that you're a cocky shit or whatever but it's just a truth you keep to yourself.

When I see a girl chatting away with any other guy, I can't help but feeling a bit sympathetic to her because I know that there's no way in hell that most dopes out there can be more fun or interesting than me. I hear cans and quizzes and drawn out stories of how they catch taxis or they should go and do "something" and I think, "My god, somebody put that girl out of her misery and just shoot her." (Actually, sometimes I do meet some genuinely interesting, fun guys and it's like we have this mutual respect for each other right away . . . .but that's another topic)

Sometimes, girls get off on trying to make you jealous . . . I just go, "Yeah, go ahead. Really, I don't mind. I'll be right here." My favorite move is to just grab her by the hand and introduce the guy she just talked about. Great. Now I have 10 minutes to myself. Every time they come back from a chat, I'm chatting with another hot girl. That's when they cling and tell you that they want to go home. In fact, I don't give a damn if any girl I'm with wants some extra meat else where. Yeah, whatever . . . have fun with your round with a bench warmer on the JV team.

It's mind set. It's a lifestyle. It's reality. There are some issues to deal with if you ever get yourself to create this reality for yourself but at least "jealousy" is out the window.

To Livitup:
Yeah i'll definitly look into that paul mckenna stuff you have there

To Kasabi:

Umm yeah. When you said "Yeah, go ahead. Really, I don't mind". Reminds me when one of my friends attempts to go after a girl i like and he suggests what to do or asks me if i wanna go for her. I say the same words with a sad look and say " yeah man, go get her, i dont care anymore, dont matter to me" but sometimes i wonder if they would ever feel any remorse about what they said previously said to me that triggered my answer. When you said that quotation up top you made me remember past experiences lol.

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jealousy is the worst emotion a person can feel! it tears a person apart and makes some people do horrible things! I get jealous all the time but im working on it....it takes time.

Think about this, do you like and respect her as a person? Then you should be happy she's happy. Or is she just a piece of ass? If so, there's plenty other/better ones out there. Either way, there's really no reason to be jealous.

yes i do like her and respect her, but to me it does not mean she could be happy. Maybe it can but you never know. Only if i could explain the situation to you, won't make anything better. Just more complicated and confusing.

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You don't need to explain anything, i know exactly what your coming from. i used to have the same problem. It comes from how you percieve yourself. If you don't think your good enough to get women,your Wrong.
I dont know. you need to create an unstoppable self image, a strong confidence in yourself to begin with. And since i used to be the same way, Ill tell you what i did to fix my problem, (and now, im extremely confident, and I have this natural feeling that women want me everywhere i go, and this shows, so it becomes in my reality, and now its Actually true.) I can go out and get a girl EVERY DAY. If not, i know theres more than one thats attracted to me.


I used to have Very low self- esteem, (bullying in school, nobody ever really liked me up until i hit like high school.) girls really didnt like me.
I became a jealous person. Ibecame VERY clingy to a girl, even after only a few days. (neediness) I was a sucker... Then, i was fucking around and ran into Paul mckenna confidence mp3. My life started changing, cause i had NO inner game. Point is, Nowadays, This is how the world works. If you believe in yourself 100% totally, and are happy within, and you know the seduction rules,or info, you can live in a real DREAM So if you want a total transformation, you needa work on 3 things. (Cory skyy, magnetic mindset....paul mckenna, supreme self conf....and Blueprint from Tyler durden.... And work on your body language. Thats all you really need to change your life to a 360 and have the babes..as i can recall, its all i look at.