how do you talk in loud nightclubs?



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PostPosted: Wed Dec 24, 2008 6:23 am 
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how do you talk in loud nightclubs?

the music there is extremely loud, i think it's really hard to talk to girls in the nightclubs. and i find it's mostly dancing. how on earth do you talk to people on loud night clubs.

i know most people in the forum, use indirect method to start conversations but how on earth can you start a conversation if the music is so friggin loud.

i think i will try to deepen my voice in hopes to help me talk in nightclubs. but do you guys have any suggestions. its friggin hard to talk.


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PostPosted: Wed Dec 24, 2008 2:03 pm 
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Honestly.. That's pretty much impossible to game a girl in night clubs that are based on just dancing. IF there's spots where you can go where there's a couch and a bar.. (A quieter SPAM) than tell her to follow you upstairs.. Or where ever it's located. Usually there's clubs that have a patio where people go out to talk and smoke. That's one of the few places I would say.

But Me personally I wouldn't mess with those places. I remember I tried to game this girl at a really loud club and we kept saying, What?! huh?! say that again?!?! I ended up getting her email and hit her up a day or so later and no response. In conclusion, you can't really build rapport and get to know anyone in that SPAM. That's just not worth the hassle i think. Try a place that has dancing but is also meant for talking as well. A 50/50 mix, I'm sure they have those where you're at.

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Well, it is possible to game in dance based clubs as well. They earn their money selling drinks so they need to have some sort of bar where it is possible to talk a bit more. But I agree, I prefer clubs with a lounge area as well as a dancefloor.
I have analysed my own behaviour in this and I have realized that when I find myself thinking that the music is too loud I can still see people on the very dancefloor having conversations. How do they do it? Well, it is possible. You just need to gesture more and speak up.
This is the second curse of the AA. It is bad enough to approach a girl and it is even worse to do so in a loud voice, you feel like everyone are looking at you. You take up more space, it is like picking up a girl with an audience. Terrible. But! BUT! You need to get over it, take the space you need and shout if you have too. It does not become more dangerous (in reality) than approaching girls in secret.


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