alrite i'm not braggin, and i'm not sayin i'm brad pitt, but my whole life i've always been told i was good looking by family, friends, ppl i'd meet and sh!t. i embraced it, but what ended up happening, was thru high school i was blind to girls showing interest in me. seriously i was so blind to it

anyway, toward my senior year of high school i was feelin awesome, and hookin up w/ honeys. life was good.

now i'm in college, and i'm fukin up terribly. i notice that i'm taking on traits that other ppl that aren't gettin laid are doing. and ppl that are not good looking. what i see myself doing is maybe having some kind of appeal to a girl, but then i open my mouth and say something retarded and its totally screws me over.

now i know game has to be good to get pus, but where does having good looks come into it? i've noticed lately that i can say something retarded .. or like something i dont even mean to be funny and a girl might laugh at it.

i also have a problem with being cocky in my head. like if a girl laughs or soemthing .. i'm like "i knew that was gunna happen" and i get cocky and think i'm awesome, but it fucks me over. i haven't gotten laid in a while. and i'm cocky? i need to get over this. what can i do

Looks do help, but a tiny bit. What you need to have is confidence and be comfortable in your own reality. Cocky can actually work to your advantage as you can demonstrate that you have higher value (DHV) to her. Just remember to not use it too much once you already have her interested and showing you indicators of interest. (IOI) Back when you were geting with alot of HB you probably were confidence in your approach and knew you had something going for you. If you are able to re-establish that frame/mindset you had back then you should be fine. Just go out with confidence, showing that your an alpha male and are heaps of fun to be with and everything else should be fine.

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it's ok to be a little cocky. but as long as being cocky means ur being confident. don't be an ass for the sake of being an ass u know? use ur cockiness and work it into a cocky/funny type of game. If ur game isn't that great but you got the looks maybe u should go for the strong silent type which has often worked for me (I experiment with different styles). A great place for you to pick up would be a loud club. If you walk tall, show confidence, and look good, then u will do well getting superficial girls in a club. try something like the apocalypse opener to get a good idea of what your good looks will let u get away with. the best part for you is that you CAN improve ur game but ur genetics are set for u. if ur already set in that department then ur laughing bud!