so i seem to be in these situations a lot, what happens is i'll be hitting on a girl, then somone else will hit on them too. most of the times its usually my friends. but i dont know what to do in these situations. personally i hate it becasue i dont like to compete over a hooking up for a girl .. i'm just a real person.

does this ever happen to anyone esle? what do u do in that situation?

I don't mind having competition, cause it lets the girl see the other (not as good) opportunities that she has, but it means you gotta up your game & be the better guy. When you play your game right, the other guys will be competing for her while she competes for you! However, if you wanna eliminate the competition, you can always AMOG the other guys: show your dominance, take away their social value, ect.

But it's no cool to be AMOGing your friends. Bringing down the value of your crew is also brining down your own value and they're your friends after all.
I'd suggest to be the best man, the alpha-male, or tell your friends you're after this chick & not to game her.