Hi I read some books and some books say that you have to put up a big ass smile (mystery says this too), but the book af david deangelo (doubleyourdating) tells the opposite: "So keep a serious look on your face (no big cheesy smiles) as this creates the feeling that you're not overly excited." He also says that james bond is a sexsymbol and he almost never smiles.. |

So what to believe, put on your big ass smile when approaching and entering a club?

whats your opinion

Smile, it shows you are fun and having fun, also portrays a sociable vibe.

If you were in a club and had the choice of approaching someone that looks happy or someone that you can't quite figure out/looks average, who would you approach?

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smile. not a huge stupid grin, but a "i'm having an awesome time" grin. i think there was a video in the lounge a while back about how to smile. was useful, go look for it.
when approaching, have that look. it gives you energy and makes you instantly seem fun to be around.
you can then get rid of the grin after the set has hooked, if you really want to.

smile. the james bond shit is true but theres no james bonds around here. he has somekind of crazy energy. and he is in a movie.

here a good example look at all 5 pua on the top of page. all smiling. sorta each differently.

guys that get laid smile
so smile

Listen to me.. im in the field ALOT.

Smile, and make long eye contact. INITIALLY. This is possibly the best most advanced type of opener. Smiling is the best, but, you cant use a BIG smile, just a normal smile, or smirk, (WITH EYE CONTACT). If you are serious, and try and act cool, it is a turn off and they wont be open to you. I have made (HOTT) girls melt in front of me by smiling and looking dead into their eyes for an extended time. about, 2 or 3 sec. Get your body language right, and you can just tallk about anything you want. perferably something you are interested in...good luck, ps...what you say when she smiles at you doesn't mean a damn thing, as long as you keep the posture, and connection, and tease her works great with kino...its all i do, smiling eyecontact flirting, touching, and teasing.. Believe you, i have made girls melt.. with this, you dont need to learn ANY ROUTINES OR OPENERS OR STORIES or any bullshit

i've done alot of experimenting with this and ultimately it depends on the situation and ur personality/game style but 90% of the time, smiling will get you laid more than not smiling. i see wut ur saying with the james bond thing. im a huge bond fan. even tho he doesnt outright smile that much, he often has this little grin on his face. its a kind of "I know something that you dont" type grin that can be used to show intelligence and sex appeal. a good example of this is in casino royale where Bond picks up that bad guy's girlfriend (the one who is later found dead in a hamock). He gives her this intense staredown with a just noticable little grin.

Ever heard of smiling with your eyes? when u smile, ur eyes look sharper and deeper (not really but its a kind of illusion). It's even possible to smile with just your eyes. this should be done all the time because nobody is attracted to dull looking eyes.

so...SMILE! u'll look more attractive and confident!