Love this one, along with all the others, but it raises a question: if a girl says your first/full name frequently, is that an IOI?

This is awesome... But needs a courage

i love your style Jay, i'll be sure to use some of your k-close material on the fields! RESPECT!

it looks like a lot of work went into this. nice work, one of the best posts i've read

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Anyone can give up. It's the easiest thing in the world. To hold it together as you walk through this hell, when everyone else would understand if you fell to your demons, that is true strength.

I'm a bomb disposal expert, so if you see me running try to keep up.

Master PUAs only: the 'she has a boyfriend but you wanna kiss her anyway' routine:

*use only to test the waters, after the hook-point, and after she's already mentioned something about a boyfriend.

"So, just out of curiosity, what do you consider 'cheating' in a relationship?" - You
"Anything beyond the limits of a friendship [or something to that effect]" - Her
"I only ask because I've noticed that a lot of women don't really have a fixed definition for what they call 'cheating.'" - You
"What do you mean?" - Her
"Well, for instance, do you consider kissing cheating?" - You
"Yeah, that's probably cheating" - Her
"I think I see where your coming from, but what if we were just really close friends?" - You

Sorry, a little late. use something like, "I guess you'll have to wait and find out!" Anything along those lines. Whatever you do, don't tell her! Unless of course you say something like, "...flowers, candy, anything else you wanna buy me."
Yes, absolutely, unless it is part of her personality. See how she responds to other people and take note of how often she uses their first names in conversation.
I like this one a lot, but it's more of a joke than a conversation piece. Either way, it's still funny!

much respect jay. this is brilliant. much respect. my fedoras off to you homey

You can say i can totally relate I have a pet that I have to go home and take care of too!

If she tells you she has a boyfriend...you can use an alternative:

Ohh i can totally relate I have a pet that I have to go home and take care of too. Done with a big smile and calibration you can see if she has a boyfriend or if she was shit testing you to see how you take it. I often find this disarms her completely as she has never had anyone give her that response!

other responses include... = that's great because i'm the kind of person your mother warned you about and if you were single you would be in so much trouble. Again smile and calibrate...don't be afraid of silence as she try's to come up with something clever as she has never been put in this situation...

and welcome to attraction!

Teague Wrote...


i've got a good one if she tells me she has a bf

"i have a boyfriend"
"it ok, i ain't a jealous person"

I usually say... "Well, we'd better not tell him about US then huh?"

If she tells you she has a boyfriend..and you didn't ask...obviously she is putting a flag in your way saying that you are hitting on me and i need to let you know about a b/f that may or may not be real. So telling her that you we shouldn't mention us may be too much depending on why she brought up the boyfriend comment in the first place. So be careful and know when to use it. If you've made out with her or are close to making out with her and she say i have a boyfriend than that line is PERFECT!

Hey guys, im kinda new here.. first post actually, i met pu about 1 year ago but never tried it for too long, i decided to read more about it ( while i read this topic, to be honest )

anyway, when she tells me that she has a boyfriend, i usually come up with

"Sure, someone has to pay our drinks, huh?"

* rate please *

In response:
He got it right.

The idea is to not push her away from her boyfriend. Remember, that is what every other guy would do, and that is exactly what she is expecting out of you. Your role is to be the "friend" that things just kinda sort of happened with...

OMG! robbing other guys girlfriends is so NOT cool!