Ok so since the eye contact worked..I was thinking of a good way to open from just eye contact...
Im thinking lets say the HB is across the bar... I get eye contact and its held for long enough... I signal to her to pick an eye...by pointing to my left or right eye..If she gets it and plays along...Lets say she picks my left eye...I point to my left eye (meaning this eye??) She'll nod or laugh etc....
Then I give her a wink with that eye!!!!
Ok heres a number closing idea im workin on...
Lets say you open up some HB..and she's having fun with you...
Say to her..Hey I got something Im goin to try with you guys...
Tell her you want a pen and a two pieces of paper...
Ok so you get what you need....
Say to her..Ok Im gona test you on how good you are at listening...
Im going to write "SOMETHING" on this piece of paper...
You have to write "SOMETHING" on your piece of paper...
If your good at listening your gona find this real easy!!

Ok so just write "SOMETHING" on your piece of paper....
Ok so im hoping shes not gona question it too much and she's gona want to show shes a good listener and just write the word "SOMETHING" on the piece of paper
Ok on your piece of paper you write....
"You should have wrote ur num

"
When you are both finished writing....exchange the pieces of paper without looking....Tell her were not gona look at them untill were done
Then have a bit more fun with the HB... Tell her you got to go to your mates etc but before you leave tell her to hold onto the pen...you might need it later
Ok have a look at your piece of paper....It should have the word "SOMETHING" on it....
She opens her piece and has a good laugh about it and if shes the kinda girl you want..She'll write her num on it and come find you!!
Thats the ideas im working on....what do yous think?? anything im missing or if you can think of making it more fool proof etc...
All replys welcome!!!