Voice Tonality.. Hurry Confidence IS LOW



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PostPosted: Sat Dec 20, 2008 3:29 pm 
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Omg.. Well I just got blown out, but not like her just
denying me. She text my friend (who used to date) to
pretend he liked her and get all mad soo Id quit texting her..
He told me later she said my voice sounded like Napolean Dynamite
aka mono toned... :(
It was going great with her went from online to texting, I had only
seen her at school a couple times after I started texting her and
exchange like a couple words each time..
Wow but... idk what to say... I mean how am I gonna improve my
game when I get shut out before I can even run game....
Idk, man inner games down alot now...
Someone please tell me how I can improve my voice tonality
so I dont sound mono tone


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PostPosted: Sat Dec 20, 2008 4:40 pm 
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Ok let me ask you this, is the voice you're speaking with her the same voice you have with every one else (friends/family/strangers) my changes based on my situation. In my opinion the best game for voice first of all is to be still/steady physically, talk slow and smooth, spike it when talking about peaked emotions/stories. but you need to act calm/relaxed.

This girl may not have it for you. I personally would probably joke with her about Napoleon dynamite and maybe impersonate him, then Neg her 2-3x in a row. OR just go for another. When I talk to a girl though I try not to move much, don't tap a pen or shuffle your hands, waddle back and fourth, look all around, just look confident like she is nothing to you, it may help if your stair at here fore head instead of eyes, try to focus on a small point on here head above the eyes.


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PostPosted: Sat Dec 20, 2008 7:05 pm 
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Well I have no shot with her... So there would be no point in trying to neg
I wont see if at all anyways bcuz im out of school now..
And she is not the one that told me. My friend told me thats what she told
him and thats why she didnt wanna chill with me or nothing. Like I said
it was good from online to text but then BAMM no good...
If anyone knows how I can fix this help please, because theres no way
I can pick up any girls or practice my game.. If I get blown out because
they think my voice is mono tone.................................................


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PostPosted: Tue Dec 23, 2008 12:05 am 
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PostPosted: Tue Dec 23, 2008 12:27 am 
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If a girl did this to me I would do aa few things.

First I would ignore her and not talk to her....even if you like her act like she is not ther.

When she comes to you or asks how you are say somthing like great! but I cant talk right now Im busy.

As for the name calling I wouldent confront her....Im guessing you are in highschool and she is just being a highschool girl. Dont ever let one women have power over your confidence!


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PostPosted: Tue Dec 23, 2008 12:29 am 
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dont worry about your voice bro....man ther are guys out ther with way worse problems!


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PostPosted: Tue Dec 23, 2008 4:36 am 
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If you're insecure about it (and it seems that way), take voice coaching classes.

Worst case scenario is that you end up being a good speaker.


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PostPosted: Wed Dec 24, 2008 4:09 am 
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Hey, its ok to have a monotone voice, in fact, its sexier to women than suealy voices. Dont feel bad, hey, check out the becomeaplayer website and guess what, THE PLAYER. which i met in real life has a monotone voice, he mentions this in his audio on the right of the page... its either "confidence" or "atitude" one of those... but no, its not a problem at all


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PostPosted: Wed Dec 24, 2008 4:31 am 
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Ok thanks I actually feel alot better now
I wrote that right after I found out..
And my the guy I talked to exagerated what she had said.
I do sometimes talk more monotone though, I thinks thats
why I was soo quick to believe him.
Its just about confidence, I used to mumble too (when I was younger)\

I just need to be confident and speak up

Thanks guys for your help


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