The best ways which works on a dance floor I find is a direct approach. A cocky funny conversation opener about something that isn't overused and cliche.

Simply dancing closer and closer to a girl and then all of a sudden getting her to let you in on the group won't work.

You have to change her state, get her attention and get her into a conversation on the dance floor.

Be forward and direct. Always works.

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I agree with you a little bit HAFemale, but this is not what I mean by dancing closer and closer to her group. I'm explaining to them that they need to have the frame of a guy just enjoying the moment on the dancefloor and happen to see a girl they have interest in.

To initiate contact/chat with a girl on the dancefloor your being direct, but you cant do that with her friends there. If I see you on the dancefloor with your friends and change your state or do w/e. Im not gonna be well liked by your friends if we assume that your the hottest among them. I have to change theyre perception of me, just some guy they met on the dancefloor to a cool guy that we can have in our lives.

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ok so im pretty much AFC but i am learning,something i find hard to do is after delivering the opener is just having a normal conversation, i can never think of anything to say that isnt complete garbage and my wing man normally has to help me out.

is there anything that i can say that will keep them interested and sound like im not a complete fake?

cheers

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Be real with yourself, listen to whats going on in the group and figure out the logistics, after the opener then just ask... How does everyone know each other.

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i will keep that in mind next time im on the dance floor thanks for the help

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Ok, man tell me how that goes for you bro

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will do man

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What Im gonna do is post some action during my dancefloor game...

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Pushing it up

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do you ever go up to girls and just start grinding? i go to dance clubs in a college town and most of the people are drunk and thats usually how the dancing is initiated is by just going up behind them and start grinding

its one way to initiate, but you have to beware that girls are gonna look at theyre friends before they accept you. Sometimes they already know who you are when you roll up behind them and start. Ive seen this happen a good amount of times.

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Pushing this up

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Juice, I got a question about mainly group dynamics. I don't really know how to deal with sets, which are actually about 100% of all girls on the dancefloor. Women on their own would be easy but I experienced that her friends are getting jealous and bust out laughing (admittedly, I looked stupid and not very smooth when I did that) and therefore trigger the girls social conditioning, meaning I'm left alone.
Also when I dance with friends and want to open sets with them, I think that the girls feel like this is weird (when two guys simultaneously approach two girls). I think this is my biggest excuse for avoiding to approach on the dancefloor, the groups. Plus, I could use some tips on letting her into my sexual frame. I don't know yet how to be "smooth" and adjusted to her energy level.
I'd appreciate your opinion on that!

Pulsebeat

Great thread. It helped me a lot.
Thanks

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Never approach with 2 dudes, unless you guys make it look like your just having fun. Have your own energy level, that is equal or higher than her's ... you should read my FR from this past weekend. I think youll get a better Idea of what I do and how I escalate on the dancefloor if not feel free to come back and ask questions..

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