so ever since i cut my hair and "restyled it" i have gotten a lot of compliments on it, its a very nice sleek trendy type of haircut, ill take a pic if anyone cares to see it lol
i keep getting compliments and i dont know how to respond to them...any ideas please!?

btw this is how the story came up/went down tonite ANY SUGGESTIONS??


anyways tonite i went out sarging, i got a first compliment from an older milf, totally flirting with me. but i did NOT know what to say, i somehow spit out "oh well thank you, thats a nice compliment"


woooow
how lame shit was that lol??
what is a very good comeback or way to "FLIRT" without making it obvious.

then when i was about to leave im walking in the house to grab my jacket, a hb8 talking to some guy tells me "oh i like your hairr!!!" and i said oh thank you thats very nice, to bad i cant say the same-
turned around the corner and walked inside...wow i realized what a fucking arrogant prick you must be in her eyes haha

what i wanted to say but froze up was
"oh thank you come here -grab her arm and spin her around- beautiful, only thing is i would change the color of the hair, other than that you seem interesting enough, whats your name?

but no...

so i walk out, and shes no longer sitting there...i see her sitting off in the corner with a friend, i walk over there aftering feeling like a dick, lean down and tell her "im sorry to interrupt you girls but im sorry if i seemed rude earlier, we both know your gorgeous, no doubt about that i just didnt want to dis-respect you and your boyfriend hitting on you, she was all smiles and said no no its ok, i said again "well i apologize, whats your name? she says her i says mine, her friends sitting there i say "oh hello whats your name? she says somethign (iforgot) i try to shake her left hand she does some weird ass movements we laugh i say "wow your friend is trying to hold on to my hand here" haha we all laugh etc. i say ok well i apologize, you ladies have a nice night, and walked out..

so ya didnt get at her either haha but i felt i owed her an apology

anyways i need to know wtf to say back after a HAIR compliment...any help!?

You're on the right track. That girl was trying to get rapport with you.
MAKE it obvious. SHE'S trying to make it obvious. It's in the open the second she compliments you. Don't worry about trying to hide the flirty vibe at that point. Just roll with it.
Ow.
Your intuition serves you well. You should've said that, but leave the neg out. The girl is already attracted to you and being friendly. No need for negs.
Yeah, that was a cool thing to do.
Thank her, kino her, tell her you like her hair. In-the-open flirty times. All positivity and smiles. No need for indirect game, disqualification, or any other swirly-whirly shit. The girl has demonstrated that you don't need that because she already perceives you as high-value. GAME ON.

What you WANTED to say was the right thing to say. Trust your instincts. You're better than you think.

"It's a wig"

You say, "thank you" and that's about it. It's the "go to" boring answer to nearly any comment anyone could ever make.

Instead, if she wants to compliment you, allow her to continue. Take a tip from chapter 7 of the book, "What Chicks do Naturally." The chapter is called "Digging for compliments." (No such chapter or book exists)

Chicks do this ALL THE TIME and when they do it well, they make AFC's sit there drooling all over them with compliments and guys don't even know what hit them.

Just go, "Really? I don't know . . . I guess it's kinda tough for me to see how my own hair looks. . . " or "Well, it's kinda long . . . Well, it's kinda short . . ? (Keep this convo going!

She'll go, "blah, blah, blah, blah . ."

You turn your head a bit, "Wow, that's cool. I thought the barber was kidding when he said he'd make my hair look metro . . "

If you want to neg her, you don't have to be so eh . . for the lack of a better word, "malicious".

These are enough:

"So it's been a while since you did your hair." . . . "You have such a sensible haircut. It's . . . eh . . . well, very sensible." . . . "Well, I like your hair too. Practicality before style, that's my motto for most other things." . . . along these lines.

kasabi << thank u sir =]

take a pic of ur hair curious to see it

Hey stop flirting with me like that!

Similar thing happened to me because of my shirt with a HB8... Some great advice here.

However - NEVER EVER EVER forget her name!!!!!! EVER!!!!! If you have trouble remembering (I know I do), try associating her name with somthing like smelly sally or funky phiona, a movie charachter, whatever. If you forget, all your hard work will be for nothing.

haha REALLY I KNOW!! lmao, i forgot some hb7 this weekend at a wedding, i was trying to play it off as a joke but she called me out on it...then it just came to me "oh ok miss smarty pants whats my name??"
she got stuck and i was like AHH!! lets agree to disagreE? lol
i then hugged her and re-introduced myself (showed a sense of humor side)
ended up closing, and have a date this weekend

so ya if your NOT gonna remember there name, remember how to play it off haha


PS ill take a pic of my hair tomorrow =]

takes about 10-15 mins to do my hair, and i get lazy from time to time lol