Hi forum, I'm new

Maybe you guys can help me, I kinda have hardship approaching and am trying to work at it. I've been wrecking my brain lately trying to dissect two situations I found myself in with HB9s.

The first case was on the bus, I sat behind a gorgeous one and got good vibes there. I wanted to make something happen but didn't know how to break it. Later on got the idea I should have used the phone, writing some hook and asking her to plz read me what it says i don't have me glasses but I can't think of something really good to hook her into a game. The best thing I could think of was writing honestly "I like you" or something, but that's too straightforward, and something that strikes some kind of conversation would be needed or I'd dry up (them HB9s are like vampires heh? ) Do you guys have an idea?

Second case was another sweetcheeks I was standing behind on a pedestrian crossing (was with me boy enjoying view) also got good vibe, but again wasted it cuz I didn't know how to break the ice. Later I was thinking I should have a prop for this kind of situation, like "s'cuse me miss I think you dropped this" but can't think of what would be a good prop for such a starter. I'm wondering what you wonderful fertile minds would make of this?

Thanks, I love you forum
Nate

for no.2 I was thinking diaphragm

Hey buddy. Welcome to the forum =)

Let's take the first situation. I would thoroughly discourage you from using the glasses/read my text opener. The girl, if she has any ounce of a brain will see straight through it and categorise you as another loserish guy trying and failing to get with her. You will also lose the frame if she does grant you further conversation.

Opening isn't just what you say, in fact that's a small part of it. What I would have done is sat next to her. I've been developing bus game a lot over the past few months so I have experience here. If the bus is relatively empty, then either sit on the seats next to/opposite her (but not RIGHT next to her), or sit IN FRONT of her, never behind. That's just perverted and AFC.

To open, just use any of the million openers you will find on this website and in many places. You can use a situational one about the bus. You can start off formal and extend your hand in a handshake and say "pleasure to meet you what's your name". She will ask for your name in return. Now there are two tools you have to be creative interesting and unique - make a comment about her name, or answer her question in an interesting way.

WHILST YOU'RE TALKING, get up casually and sit next to her. It has to be whilst you're talking, same in most situations. But just sit on the edge as if she has a disease. Then make her qualify. Something like "Jesus man, I met a girl the other day on the bus and I didn't even know her but she kept trying to touch me...that was weird. You're not a weird girl are you? She'll say no, to which you respond by moving close to her (sitting properly next to her) and saying "good! Then maybe we can be friends". Note that you say that without looking or caring about her, otherwise it will seem needy. You're qualifying her, not the other way around. At any point after this you can push her away with your but and squeeze her against the window and say "You're taking too much space, fatso". This is good kino and it works because you're negging her. Make sure you don't lean in with your face while doing this or it will be weird.

I don't fully understand the context of your second situation, but street game is much harder than bus game. I've found that it's best to go in with a situational opener and be very polite, because big bad men walking up to cute innocent women doesn't go down very well stereotypically . In other words, you reverse the order of the stages of comfort and attraction. Some so called 'mPUA' said this and I've found he is absolutely correct.

Thanks for the reply Gamble. I should add that I work it in Israel, chicks are actually less uptight here and there is less awareness of the game. Also I got the feeling those girls where kinda checking me out, I was lookin' dynomite and I do have a knack at disarming people (I look innocent ). I'm not sure it wouldn't have worked for me there. Your method would probably be the best, but I still find straightforward game difficult (still not over the fear factor). That said, you've got some wicked moves there

P.S that first chick was a young policelady but she looked like a shop window doll

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