I turned 18 yesterday, and my other friends sometimes go to the club and stuff and invited me if I can go sometime. I've just been reading all the pick up artist stuff from the beginning of this month. I've tested the cube and other lil games out there with some people just so I can get the hang of it, and its pretty fun. But I never been to a club before, so tell me if this is right please? I don't wanna be caught just "trying to hit on them." I wanna be casual and not weird.

So for example, if there is a group of 2 girls hanging out. I don't know much openers, but I like the cologne opener lol. Walk up to them, "Can I get an opinion on something? I've got 2 different colognes on my wrist, let me know which one you like better?". Then I let the first girl smell it, and then she'll let me know which one. Then I'll show my target, and she'll let me know. Ill then tell them why I'm doing that...

While doing that, I just like look back, letting them know unconsciously that I don't have much time and so they get comfortable. Think that might work?

Then I'll do the best friends test. After that, I'll talk to the target and tell "I bet I can tell more about your personality then your best friend does". Then she might ask me to prove it etc... Then I'll tell her to put up her hands on top of mines to build kino and try the "The Cube" routine on her. And do a lil push and pull by taunting her like, "ahhhhhhhhh I dont know, you might think this is weird... You really wanna try it?" or if she does'nt wanna put her hands on mine I'll say "Fine, guess you dont wanna try the trick, and then walk away... (hoping she will call me back lol). I guess that'll build up emotion to her? She might ask me if I do this to every girl and I'll respond "only if I feel that theres more than meets the eye" if that happens.

Then I'll tell her "what are 3 things about you that make you unique?" and then she'll just talk etc...

After that, Ill ask her if I seem interesting. Then I'll do that lion hair pulling routine lol. And then try that "Kiss-close" routine by mystery.

What Im not so sure is if the 3 things about her and the intimacy part might not flow... Like doing the cube and stuff seems easy, but how about escalating and actually picking her up...

Let me know what you think and how I can make that better... THANKS!!!

Thing is your setting this Mental perfect picture of how you think will go and how you will answer... If something doesn't go as you had 'planned' you are going to freeze.

Go to the club with zero intentions on picking up girls, Just go to be the life of the club. Have fun, make sure people are having fun. When you do that it will be MUCH easier to smoothly say things as people See you as "fun type of a guy".


GO have fun man.

yeah I see what your saying. But how do escalate a girl to the intimacy level without coming off like a horny or perved dood?

Yeah man I reakon your thinking about it too much. It will make you come across as unatural if you have every word planned in advance.

alright. I'll just flow with it. But I just wanted to have some backed up so I can get the gist of how to pick up.

Would wearing like a shiny earring and watch be bad to wear? I don't wanna come off as a showoff or just a dood wanting attention, but I usually wear them anyway. And if I girl points it out like "nice watch", hows this line? "your not a theif are you? *smile*. Or if they say "I like your shirt/pants/earing/watch etc..." I'd say "no you don't, your just attracted to me".

Yep wear a watch, an earing, whatever you like. A couple of my mates have dredlocks and they put springs in their hair and all sorts of weird stuff. They get lots of attention, the girls pick them up.

If she says "nice watch" than you look at it and say "it's time to go back to my place and f**k". Lol! Ok maybe a bit too forward but being outrageous and using sleazy pickups is funny as. Just joke around man and make them laugh.

Also don't be too concerned if you don't pick up. Just get some drinks into you and have a good night!

not old enough to drink yet lol.

how about the games like the cube? One girl asked me how I knew about the trick and I said I was walking around borders and just happened to take a quick look at it. Anyone know anyway to root it smoothly?

And I tried the cube and the 3 adjectives game on one girl (color, animal, water and room), and I she felt that I understood her so well, and she said I should be her psychologist or some shit. Is it bad to do 2 mind games on her?

And she likes to punch me. IOI's? So whenever she punches me, I just slap her on her arms or like go behind her and push me knee behind her so she falls a lil, and at the same time she falls into me. I kept on doing it over the night and she didn't give a $$$$ lol. Whats a good way to touch her back if she punches you (IOI's)

Oh right I'm from Australia you see, you can drink when you 18. Which is great cos you get all the little 18 yo hotties pissed and take your pick! It helps being the older guy too

ok, what if a girl is by herself? after you open, what should you do next? i just wanna feel and go along with the vibes, but what do should you talk about

Its Rare a girl is by herself. So before you assume she is by herself unless you ask be prepared for an interupt also position yourself so if that interupt comes you are at a good angle to intercept and introduce yourself or intercept it before you get blown out potentially.

Asking a girl "are you alone" off the bat signals "hes wants to hit on me" on some girls so try to avoid it until you build atleast some comfort with her.

A solo girl is easy to isolate as she is open for suggestions. Read over DiCarlo's Ladder of escalation and make sure you are performing them smoothly so you don't trigger her defensive side. Talk about the place you are, your future, Passions, what she does for fun... try to show common interest with her and maybe talk about things you got in common like Bands, Shopping malls, Clothing, Jobs.

good Luck man.

Ask how her night's going. Ask her about her life. Listen to what she has to say and relate to it in some way or another. I've never really thought about it much like you just get talking about something and it leads on to the next thing which reminds you of something else.

For example I went up to the bar right next to this not bad chick and we were both waiting to get served for ages. So I said "This service sucks, I'm going around to the front bar". Then she's like "I will come with you". Then we were at the front bar and I introduced myself properly. She had some weird name so i'm like "that's an interesting name how do you spell that?". Then we just got talking about some other stuff and I ended up buying her a drink.

Anyway I didn't end up picking her up because I was already chasing another girl who was at the pub also. Obviously I should have gotten her number because the other girl I was chasing ended up being a bitch and went home early