Ok so last night i was at this super supreme 16. Now im mixed (and apparently i got the white gene when it came to dancing. lol. or i just feel real embarassed dancing.)this was a 99 percent black party. There was this girl in my english class who felt the collar of my jacket and said "I like that twentyseven, why dont u wear it to school" and i replied saved it for this parrty (afc?) but then later on when everyones danceing. twice throughout tonight she came up on me and starting grinding. (damn black girls grind way better then me so i seem horrible) so then after the second time she turned around felt my sides and taught me how to move when i grind (so embarassing) then i was like thanks and walked away and cracked a couple jokes bout that to her. so like was she just being nice?ioi's? whats ur opinion? also i talked to her for like a second when i see her in the halls. ill say wow u get better lookin everytime i see you ,corny shit like that.just jokeing. or like i dropped a tear in the ocean the day i find it is the day i stop loving u. lol. ettc. whats your opinion? please and thanks.

I'm a RAFC.

After the first grind. Dance. Hold sexual tension. Keep doing whatever for a few minutes. Slow down. Look her in the eyes. Down to the mouth. In the eyes. Slowly kiss her. Make out.

ok i was already at the party. I meant what should i do in school now. were those even IOI'S?.

Yeah, those are pretty blatant IOI's. You have to learn how to grind though, pretty AFC when she needed to teach you how. Don't just talk to someone for a second. I've had that problem for awhile, not good. Try to build comfort (if you haven't already) and get to know her and let her get to know you. Not a great idea always commenting on how she looks, compliment her on her personality. I mean, if she really does look good one day all dressed up, don't hestitate to throw in the, "stunning" or "you look beautiful". If you just keep having little conversations you'll just end up in the LGBF zone. Good luck!