ok so basicly i brought this girl a present for xmas (wasnt cheap) ... because i though we was going somewhere but then she said we should just be freinds ...admittedly i still like her (alot) ... should i still give her the gift or not?... will it help in anyway?..

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Sexy underwear might help to get the mesage across.

If the gift is somthing friends would give eachother i would say dont do it, but if its somthing with sexual undertones- some sexy latin coffe with
"A cappuccino is a guarantee of good head" or somthine lol (yea that sucks)


coffee starts off hot and wet.... hahahah that sucks to hmmm....

hahaha sounds good but thats not what ive got her is actully a digital camra (because her last one is cheap and keeps brakin) i dont know if thats sexy in anyway..unless i use it to take a picture of my wang and then give it to her?.... but i dunno wearever to give it to her

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Explain to me WHY on earth you would spend that money on some girl that isn't even in a relationship with you? Trying to impress her with gifts won't work. I wouldn't get a girl that I'd been going out with for a year a digital camera. Hell, I won't get my mom a digital camera and she's pretty high up there on the present list.

Value is in what the gift means, not what it costs. That's where the saying, "It's the thought that counts" came from. People are more touched (I won't say rather, because we all love getting expensive shit) when someone gives them something hand-made, or that has some sort of personal meaning. Remember that in the future and for now just go return that camera and don't bother giving this girl anything unless you've made it clear that you don't want to just be friends and she's on board with that. If she is into more, then I'd go with the something sexual idea, but make it a lot less expensive, like chocolate frosting and some fruit that you can feed to each other.

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yeaa i got to agree with everything that Rye said although i usually try to be a bit more direct, somthing like chocolate fruit could be taken any way... when chosing a gift think "what would i never get my sister" here is a thought...

you know those chocolates that come in those little square wrappers? sneek a chocolate flavor condom into it lol... that could be really creepy though...

That's why I recommend chocolate frosting (for cakes and such) or chocolate sauce that comes in a can and some fruit. That way it's something that you have to put together, it isn't just easily eaten and thus there's more of a purpose to it.

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I think you should give her that expensive camera
She'll think your such a nice guy

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this is true i just wanted the idea that i would get her something diffrent, shes not from a very wealthy background or anything .. so it woudnt be like she wont appriciate it ...

but i guess for now ill keep the recipt......

oh and another thing (shes got a bf) maybe it was to show that iam better then him :S

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I was being sarcastic with my comments
I can't understand why your wasting all this time on someone elses girlfriend after she's made it clear she just wants to be your friend
you need to get a clue

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So you think that her love is a fair trade for your digital camera? Nope. In all honesty if she's LJBF'd you, you can:

A) Leave her as a friend and save time.
B) Try again and risk failing even harder.
C) Completely isolate her for a long period of time (from 15 weeks to two years) and come back as a fun interesting person.

Giving a girl gifts who's already LJBF'd you is AFC if you think she'll have second thoughts.

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If I would give a girl I have not slept with any kind of christmas present it is because she is a friend or relative or if I wanted her to be constantly reminded of me (like an anchor).
Nothing fancy (digital camera, man!!!!), but like sticker or an MP3 of "your song" or something related to an internal "joke". Something that links you to her!

Never ever try to buy yourself into her panties, shes gonna either use you or feel awkward.

Dont GIVE HER ANYTHING

If anything buy her a card thats funny with a little
and I stress little sexually undertone. You want her to
laugh and think its fun but you want her subconius(sp?)
to get the message.

Do not give her a camera.. Unless you marry her

I just bought my ex an present for christmas, it was a box of bath soaps from the under $10 table! Hell it was funny, this other guy comes over and is like "so who's got the girlfriend". So what if i'm cheap, I broke it off with her and I know she loves bath soaps! Keep em on the good side of ya.

Oh and then there's my other ex who I am going to go dig up a pine tree and put it in a pot as a christmas tree. It will cost me absolutely nothing and I know that she loves all things living. (This will really piss off her current boyfriend ).

So yeah definately use christmas to your advantage but a digital camera is only something you would buy if you were married to her. It is definately the thought that counts, not how much you spend.

Definately make it a present that she can relate to.

Here's an example... My mate had this girl who did lots of charity work overseas. This one weekend he was heading down town to see her so he brings her an envelope with a piece of paper in it saying "I was going to spend this $30 on a voucher for you, but I thought that instead I would donate it cambodian children in need". Inside the envelope is a receipt for the donation he made.

Stuff giving her the camera. Instead use it to take a picture of yourself, get it printed, and send it to her in a card saying something like "Since your camera is always stuffing up I thought I would send you a photo of myself!" That way you've spent basically nothing, it will make her laugh, and you've got her thinking about you and looking at you in the photo! Perfect!!!

i like the picture idea alot .... i dont want to marry her so i think i may just keep the camra for myself ... but i dont think shes got me anything so iam just gonna forget giving her anything .....

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