She wants the kiss, BUT you decline!?



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PostPosted: Thu Dec 18, 2008 6:12 pm 
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Hey, Im wondering if not taking the kiss would ever help?
Like to build attraction and tease her..

For example your on the first date or whatever, and you've been
kinoing and everything you know she wants to be kissed, you lean
in close..... then you say something like"not yet" or something idk...

Would decline when you know she wants to kiss you increase attraction
and make her wanna kiss you more, or do you just think it would hurt
you if you dont take the kiss??


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It could work, but it would also frustrate her. Imagine if a girl did that to you. If she didn't actually follow through pretty soon after, you'd start to get resentful.

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yes if you do this, you should only do it once, and then actually follow through. You don't wanna seem like a muff tease! :lol:


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Can you think of any C/F lines?
Or would you just pull away and smile


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I'd stay away from coquettish stuff like that.

MOST guys won't kiss a girl when she's ready to be kissed because most guys are risk-averse AFCs. This won't come off as teasing. It'll come off as wussy, just like the last bunch of dudes that didn't pull the trigger when she was ready to go.

If you want to do something like this, then start a kiss when she's ready for it, get some tongue action, and then cut it off.

And then bounce her somewhere and seal the deal.

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I'd stay away from coquettish stuff like that.

MOST guys won't kiss a girl when she's ready to be kissed because most guys are risk-averse AFCs. This won't come off as teasing. It'll come off as wussy, just like the last bunch of dudes that didn't pull the trigger when she was ready to go.

If you want to do something like this, then start a kiss when she's ready for it, get some tongue action, and then cut it off.

And then bounce her somewhere and seal the deal.
I disagree. If you are just about to kiss her, but don't, then it's completely different from not having the courage to do it. I'm not talking sitting across from her, or even standing there and not doing it. I'm talking about getting right into it, having your lips graze each other even, then at the last second pull away and give her a mischevious smile that says, "I know you want it, but you can't have it." BIG difference.

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I disagree. If you are just about to kiss her, but don't, then it's completely different from not having the courage to do it. I'm not talking sitting across from her, or even standing there and not doing it. I'm talking about getting right into it, having your lips graze each other even, then at the last second pull away and give her a mischevious smile that says, "I know you want it, but you can't have it." BIG difference.
Oh, yeah, that's different. I see what you're doing there.

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