I just met this cute girl a few days ago that was hanging out with my friends at a bar when I arrived later to meet them. After getting to know this girl a little while getting pressured to drink with her and ending the day with her number and a hug, I decided to text her the next day with some few text lines that I picked up from different sources of text game. However, I havn't received any response for about a day after texting her 2 times (with a question in the end) the last time I texted her. So Im wonderig if I should just leave her alone and call/text her a couple days later. How would you handle this situation?

Any advice /comments will be helpful and appreciated

-Thanks

don't text agian or call. if the girl is at least a little interested she'll text back.

OK after one day, she finally replied to my texts with;

HB: Haha ur texts were silly last night sorry I havn't replied, i was super busy yesterday. Hope ur night goes well today!

Then I responded,

ME: Ahh~ who is this (her nickname)? (her real name)? You're unbelievable...not even one phone call since we last had text...lol
Its all good. I wishd we can go have fun tonight but I have to work. we should meet sometimes when i get a few hours to spare. Hows your week looking?

HB: Stuck at worrrk :/

How should I respond next? What do you guys think?

"You're unbelievable" "not even one phone call since we last had text" "..lol"
"we should meet" "Hows your week looking?"

I don't like anything you've wrote its terrible!


"You're unbelievable" Don't ever say that, shes just a girl nothing special
"not even one phone call since we last had text" bad! needy enough?
"..lol" un easiness
"we should meet" No we shouldn’t, and why?
"Hows your week looking?" Indecisive

I don’t know how id reply now, just say

“Alright, well I’m going to the city next Thursday, if your down for a adventure, i wouldn’t mind a shopping side kick, you know one to hold my bags! *nudge* ”

Or

“let me know when you come around, we can go for ice cream, I know the best place ever but not sure if I can show you just yet, oh and your paying! :O ”

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Come on . . .

It wasn't great but I don't think the text was "TERRIBLE" at all.

"Unbelievable" can be used with a 'positive' voice and a 'negative' voice and in the context that it was used, I'd say it was pretty neutral.

Also . . . I wouldn't go C/F on texts until you K close of F close her. . . or at the very least you've made your intentions very clear in real life.

Agree with Imapct on your usage of total random questions. Be specific with time + event. . . So it's not, "Well, let's hang out any time you have time . . ." . . . more like, "I'm going to _____ park this Saturday to a _____ festival. Meet me at ___pm."

HEY, Thanks impact (that "side kick" was coincidentally the perfect words to add in the text since we had an inside joke about that) and I appreciate your comment Kasabi.

So I responded back after the last text;

HB: Stuck at worrk :/

ME: “Alright, well I’m going to the city next Thursday, if your down for a adventure, i wouldn’t mind a shopping side kick, you know one to hold my bags! *nudge*

HB: What city ?

ME: L.A.

So far, It seems like Im getting her attention now.
Should I have responded with more details on what part of L.A. ? or just keep her guessing ? When is the perfect moment to just execute with a meeting and scedule time for this "next Thursday adventure" (which is actually a X-mas day) during this text conversation?

Trying to get her to meet you on Christmas day might be hard to do. She probably has plans with family, and such. You might want to ask her about the 2nd day after Christmas... And if you meet her, don't ask her what she's doing for New Years. She probably has plans... but you cen tell her what you'll be doing, and if she sounds interested, ask her to join you. Tell her you'll hold her hair while she gets sick, but you might want to take pics and post them on the internet... At this point, she'll tell you what she is doing.. You might tell her that sounds better than what you will be doing, and hope she offers...Don't invite yourself... Let her ask you.

Great advice from impact.

Alright, heres an update from the last text exchange after i told her what city I was going to shop at.

....a day later....

I text her, a silly message about "tomorrows hug a retard day, so don't freak out like you all did last year..no ones trying to hurt you!"

HB- Hahaha wowww.. you have lots of jokes huh?

Then I tell her that I just like putting smiles on faces .. she then says "hahah but they're mean kind of funnies. If I ever find any good ones, ill be making sur to send em' to you ....I then reply, "can't wait to hear em" and asked her if she's working this friday at her job (waitress at a restaurant)...she replies, "yes :/" ....I then text her back that she needs to turn her frown upside down cause i might stop by to eat there....She then replied, "OK sounds good I start work at 12."...I then reply, "i'll see you and you can be my server "...THEN she responded,"Too bad I im not a server lol, but ill make it a point to try taking yours if its not too busy"...

in the end of the text, I replied, "Thats cool I'll put in a good word for you to your manager if you do".

What do you guys think I should add into my game when I go stop by at her work to eat? Im thinking of bringing a friend along with me just to spice the game up...

Any reply, questions, criticism will be appreciated.

-Thanks

personally I would'nt see turning up to eat at her restaurant just because she works there as a good idea.. I think it shows your following her around, needy etc..

hopefully she will call you up on not going the next morning, and you can have some sort of reason why not,i.e. had other plans, my friends said the waitresses at restauant X where really cute, the green goblin and the swarm of angry locusts werent going to defeat themselves etc..you know, valid reasons

Tell her u'll go down to the restaurant if you can use her employee discount and that you can extend the favor at your job...even if you dont have one. Tell her you work at express or something.

Then when she asks you about returning the favor say you got fired last week.

So what shall I randomly text her back with ? .... or should I just lay low until Friday and tell her an excuse that I can't make it...

I just don't want to seem needy to her, but yet, I feel maybe she does want me to be there to see her...

Dude, she likes you. So usually at this point, I'd say you do what ever the hell you want but if you want to but I'm sure some will suggest you go the, "Keep her wanting you more and more" route.

This is a done deal. When you meet, kiss her on the cheek and do it as if this is just something you do for everybody. While doing this though, hold her hand a big longer than you'd do for your grandmother. It's time to shift gears . . .

Just call in a few days.

In general you want to just use text after the # close to make sure she'll respond then get to the phone as it's way easier to get a girl to come meet up with you over the phone as opposed to over text.

S

Thanks much for the responses soup, gaime, kasabi and sinn....

Im planning to go drop by at her work(restaurant) this Friday with a couple of my friends to eat dinner. My plan is to just tease her a bit as she's working and before I leave, i'll give her a kiss on the cheek saying "this is how my cultures tradition say goodbye to awesome people." Which will probably seem to come out randomly unexpected for her since I never really got into kino-escalation phase with her. DO you guys think it'll blow her away ? or should I wait until I isolate her and get her comfortable more? I've only been talking to this HB (over text) for about a week only. Now I know I have to keep it moving, but damn Im trying to be analytical and careful with what I do and how I do it.