I was talking to a girl in line the other day and I was trying to convince her to steal everything she had instead of paying for it. I knew she wasn't going to just run out that door. She knew, that she was not just going to run out the door.

so i bet your thinking about now, "well then that was a wasted conversation"

Now here's a fun exercise for you:

Explain to me why that conversation was NOT a waste of time.

That conversation was not a waste of time if it was used as a transistion between one interesting topic to another one.

While having that conversation you might have been able to think of a new topic to move onto after which is great as opposed to not having this *pointless* conversation but instead having it replaced with an awkward silence.

After Reading up on PU fanatically for the past 3 months. I'm finally ready to go out on to the field and test all this theory i've gathered.
Its been a wonderful journey and the beauty of it is, its only just begun.

I'm slowly refound myself and let me tell you, so far... I love what i see.

that conversation was not a waist of time for three reasons.

a.) It is a perfect example of flirting, I was gaining rapport while learning to enjoy a strangers company.

b.) It was a fun conversation to have, yes everything has to go somewhere at some point but I see no need in rushing things.

c.) I got to use it as an example here.

basically your thinking in terms of lets get to destination "a" but your social intuition will tell you that to get to destination "a" you have to stay here in this dumb conversation until it feels right to move on.

flirting is a very important tool to get you to destiniation "a"

Flirting is mastery of the nonsensical.

she taps you, say omg omg omg that hurt.

take her cell, then when she grabs for it back cradle the phone and then stick your toung out at her

if it looks squishy, poke it. (thats my personal favorite, it can get you in soooo much trouble but at the same time its sooooo much fun.)

if she touches you accuse her of trying to rape you.

say something then deny saying it.

act childish if she tells you to do something ya know like a little kid saying no to his mommy. cross your arms turn away and be like 'no'


If she starts talking about a problem that would obviously not affect you like idk like boys. tell em you have that same problem


Me: yah my jobs aight, it feeds the kids. (I clearly look 17, way young to have kids)
her: omg you have kids?
me: no
her: I want your penis!

Don't make apologies if some of your attempts at flirting don't work, just go back to attraction then work up again or freeze then continue trying to flirt.

hahaha, that makes me laugh. you could very easily (and likely) get smacked for that one.

but he's right. let your childish/silly side show, and it's mostly flirting. a lot of looking/staring is good, too. just remember that it's in your body language and your tone more than anything.

and relax.

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