What is the best way to ask a target for a day 2? And what is the best way to react if they say "no" to your offer?

Opinions?

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All the world is a stage, but the play is badly cast!
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after you've built comfort and attraction say "I've got to go, but we should meet up one day and ______

If she rejects then just say oh well, it was nice meeting you

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Don't ever let somebody tell you.. you can't do something. Not even me. All right?

You got a dream.. you gotta protect it. People can't do something themselves, they wanna tell you you can't do it. If you want something, Go get it. Period.

Why would you ask? Know what's around you to do and have a plan of something exciting or adventurous, not just dinner and a movie like every other afc. If you've done enough DHV'n and gotten her interested in you, then let her know how to get in touch with you or where to meet you if she wants to join the fun but now is her chance cause you're not waiting around for her to catch up or giving her much chance to say no. Done well and she's the strong adventurous type with interest in you, she'll be asking you where and when day 2 is going to happen. Offer?? It's going to be a great time with or without her and she should feel lucky to get to come with you. She's welcome to join you but her loss if she chooses not to. If she says no, oh well, doesn't matter does it? I guess she's not as interesting, exciting or adventurous with a personality as you thought she was, just eye candy. Don't chase or act like it's the end of the world, or make any hurtful comments, screams desperation. Act as if it's going to be even more fun since she won't be around as an anchor.

You dont ask, offer, or let her consider. You command.

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I mean after # closing where insta-date is not possible and you want to meet up at a later point in time.

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All the world is a stage, but the play is badly cast!
-Oscar Wilde

I know what you mean but the answer remains the same. You've given up on closing right then and want to move it to day2. She has your number, you have hers or both? If I had hers, while I was still talking to her I would shoot her a quick text saying something like "Would you stop checking out my butt you perv!!" or like one of the other pages suggested that I liked, "Hey, who's that hot guy you're talking to?" That way she has your number to get in contact with you or knows what number to be looking for on the caller id. To her, your life is busy and exciting. You're not just sitting around lonely waiting for some girl to show up so you can try and wine'er-dine'er and if she wants to see you anytime within the next two weeks she's kinda going to be a third wheel and drop in on something you already have planned cause you don't know her and she's not that important to you to have you cancel any plans to accommodate her schedule. AFC's are always available and within seconds will be pushing for a day2. Smells of desperation and they'll be sitting there wondering how they were able to # close and things were going so well, IOI's left and right but got no day 2 out of it cause she was busy washing her hair whenever he called. When you leave her after the initial pick up, you want her wondering if you're really ever going to call her and hoping that you do. When her phone rings you want her to be hoping it's you and that you'll have something more exciting for her than whatever she's got planned already. I prefer they don't even know what we're going to do until we're actually doing it. Keep them in the dark and you can have them guessing while in the car on the way, takes up time and helps open her up and get more comfortable by eliminating some of the awkward silences that may occur early on day2s cause one or the other or both of you may be nervous. Not knowing increases interest and anticipation and when it's not the typical AFC dinner and a movie makes it even more exciting for them, increasing their interest in you. Not only that but having a secret that they want to know can open up massive opportunities for them to drop IOI's and pulls them in for kino instead of you reaching out for them. Last thing you want any girl to ever think is that you're just like every other guy she's ever met. Be exotic, mysterious. Be a foreigner if you think you can pull it off, just don't be like every other guy or too easily available and desperate.

That is the most inspiring thing iv read in a while! and has just helped me with a situation im in recently.

thanks