I just read a very good article on another pickup forum. Check it out:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=134995

EDIT: Just to clarify, I did NOT write that article!

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thats a good post but that guy thinks way too hard most girls aren't that smart to actively test a guy to such extremes. However that post does show that women are as capable as the men are of being interested in other people while they're dating you.

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I really like this post, but I totally disagree with his assertion that the only people who pass the test are the "naturals." I'm a natural myself and used to fall into this trap all the time when I was younger. Why? Because I was advertising myself as something I couldn't deliver all the time. Anybody who is putting up a facade of what he THINKS women like in order to attract them is going to fail eventually, period.

And even if for some reason she doesn't become cold and end the interaction, you will eventually get sick of having to put on your fake persona for her and come to resent her for a problem you created!

The lesson here is simple: it's a whole lot easier and less painful in the long run to actually BE an awesome guy, than it is to just act like one.

Just keep in mind that women need to suck your cock to survive. Everything else is just their hysteria getting the best of em'.

I agree some women do this . . . I've seen it a lot. However, I don't agree that women do this with any kind of planning or strategy in mind.

Most women I've seen do this, do it with a suicidal flare. They need your cock for sure . . . but for reasons they can't even explain to themselves, they deny you by denying THEMSELVES. It's like the kid who rolls around in the mud to piss his parents off. He can't explain it either but at the end of the day, the kid is covered in filth and he's not liking it one bit.

Believe me, if you want to fool around with girls like this, it's OK but give it a second thought before you date them. This type of behavior won't simply end with the "game". They'll continue to behave this way their entire lives and it's a huge head ache. They'll get pissed at you so they won't eat dinner. She get pissed at her boss, so they'll quit before lining up another job, knowing that it's going to kill her financial life. Guess who's paying rent? She gets mad at one girl so she doesn't go to the Christmas party. On and on and on. . .

So in fact, it has less to do with "game" but rather, it's more of a personality flaw. I've seen plenty of wussy guys do the same thing and basically F up their lives in a suicidal downward spiral.

If you just want to tap one, go ahead. Just treat these weirdo chicks like the way good parents should treat mud-rollers. You ignore them. You continue shopping, eating, drinking, living, etc . . . The mud-roller soon figures out that "it's not working" and follows their parents before they leave him on the street.

The weirdo chicks will sit at home thinking, "Why am I doing this? Why am I doing this?" If you show them you care at all of this behavior, they'll say, "Eureka! I knew there was a reason I did this! Look at all this attention I'm getting!"

However, the minute the psycho girls figure out that you called up another girl and you're taking HER out for great times and a mouthful of cock, she'll get all nervous and text/call you with, "Where are you? Can I come over? Let's hang out! . . . etc . . ."

People like this are a real drain of your energy in the long run.

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great read. very good.

jajajaja. he quoted bush. lol

Wow, this read completely defined the reason why I have failed with potential relationships. Very interesting and insightful read for me.

I've always been able to start strong with girls but then the relationship would start to fade with her pulling away and I could never understand it....now I can identify with the feeling that I have "won" and becoming needy, eager, set to plans, etc. SO glad I found this article so I can keep myself in check with the current target. Just too bad I didn't find it beforehand for "the one that got away...."

Your situation is quite different from the situation in the article. Believe me, you really don't want to dive into a long term relationship with the weirdos who pull that kind of crap as outlined in the article. No vagina is worth . . . well, actually, there are a few vaginas that are worth that sort of head ache but still . . .only for short term.

That was one really good article. The only thing that I don't agree with here is that it's only the naturals that can pass these so called "active" tests. The reason for me disagreeing here is that you can learn to become a natural alpha male. It's basically about improving your inner game. I do not strive to become a PUA. Instead I strive to improve myself to have a REAL (=natural) game with an ALPHA lifestyle (=good inner game). This is my goal. Therefore I don't agree with the Venusian arts method. The method that gurus like Zan Perrion and Carlos Xuma talk about is more what I strive for. Even Mystery himself has proclaimed "I want to be like Zan!". I would even say that there are nothing called a "Game" as everything in life is involved into what the "Game" actually all about. So life in it self is the perpetual essence of the (PUA) "Game". So there is no direct "Game" to improve but the life in it self...

It's not that I want to get into a relationship with "weirdos', it's that I have noticed by neediness/eagerness when I realize a girl actually likes me and wants to be around me. I'm using what I learned from this article in order to keep myself in check and never let it happen again. A girl isn't a weirdo because she doesn't want to be with someone who is needy.

Not sure if you read the article entirely and not sure if you read my post.

Again, your situation is quite different from the situation in the article and from what I can see from your writing, I doubt you've ever been in that situation yet. This is a good thing.

that article was helpful