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I hate those words, and the horrible deflated feeling that follows. I would prefer to be told to "fuck off", to be honest. I'm in a situ now where, lets just say I can anticipate those words very soon. Its probably been done over and over (i'm new here) but I might really need something to respond to the dreaded "lets just be friends", or better still some way of making sure they aren't said at all . .
thanks in anticipation

Everyone hates them but that basically means there is more comfort than attraction. If you are looking at a balance of Attraction + Comfort = Seduction as Mystery says. And we have more comfort than Attraction then add in the attraction man! You need to kino escalate and get it going. You either need to amp up the attraction and start working towards seduction or prepare to here those 4 hateful words.