Well I've just been getting into the game and basically, all these info I have read, just basically reminded me that all I have to do is flirt. Its pretty much natural stuff right? Im not old enough to go into clubs, so its just pretty much myspace, school and texts. Just basic social circles etc...

So flirting, being playful, and kinda acting like its no big deal is the right way? I can flirt, I guess... but SOME people say you might sound needy, the girls don't show any IOD's, but how do you not sound needy in flirting?

Do you guys give girls nicknames in the convo's? Like, if I notice what type of personality or attitude she's giving me, I would say, "wow, sorry huh ms. _______". Whatever fits the situation, and if shes like "im so not ____. im sweet, really". I would say, "well, what makes you so sweet?". and then its basic flirting after and she knows Im flirting and she'll just go along with it. Its all metaphors and hidden meanings lol. And the girls don't mind. I always thought they would get mad about these, until I just tried and its working lol.

Basically, I feel like a social robot trying to learn all the techniques from people.

I'd rather just make up my own ways to interact with what would fit whatever situation with knowledge of IOI's, openers (if your talking to a complete stranger, I dont need to worry about this), negs (anything you can playfully tease about her from the top of your head), threading the conversation (connecting stories and being creative with questions to ask her, sometimes playful questions [flirty]).

You may feel like a social robot at the moment but these are simply lines to help you get more socially savvy. After a while you will develop a natural way of doing things that you don't even need to think about and you will have women falling at your feet left and right without you even having to say "Hey guys I need a quick opinion" or "Nice nails, are they real?"

You will develop natural game after an indefinite amount of practice in field so go out and learn.

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The guy above nailed it eventually you will just be the person instead of acting the part, which is when you will say something and be like wow did I just come up with that on the spot.

Also on the topic of nicknames trouble is probably my favorite not sure why but most women get called it by me, I suppose it is an easy thing to neg with.

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